My son is 6. Diagnosed with ASD/Learning disabilities. He is non verbal and up until now I was looking forward to him getting a place at a Special school as mainstream is not meeting his needs (they have admitted this and have been supporting us)
Was watching BBC news and something came up which showed horrific abuse towards children who have SN, teachers locking them in cages, hitting them. I am not saying this happens everywhere but a couple of people have made comments like "I would never put my child in a special school especially if they are non verbal"
A colleague also said she visited the school and a teacher shrugged her shoulders and said "these kids are hopeless so there is no point in bothering with them" - this sounds crazy to me and I doubt a teacher would say that but it played on my mind for awhile
After seeing what I saw now, I am very worried about sending my non verbal son to a place where he cannot tell me if anything happened
I appreciate I may be overreacting but i'd appreciate some advice if you have a child who attends Specialist provision and how you dealt with the unknown