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What’s the worst thing you’ve seen in the workplace?

221 replies

chbahjng · 26/11/2024 15:33

Mine won’t be half as bad as some peoples or even a quarter but -

I worked in about a team of 20 and it became very obvious that higher management wanted this team dissolved. At least 12 of us left within the space of a 3 months (no backfilling) because they made it so horrendous and then management shit themselves because all they had left were the lazy ones who did no work.

Another place I worked one manager (who was clearly miserable in life) would get people fired like it was a sport.

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Allergictoironing · 01/12/2024 10:10

One company I worked for would have weekly "Town Hall" meetings which everybody was supposed to attend in person - there was a big argument when it was pointed out that some staff were based in central London and would lose half a day's work at least if they had to travel to the out of town business park for a one hour meeting that could be done by conference call.

Anyway, the boss would use this meeting to call up anyone they were sacking to give them the dreaded brown envelope - the first the sacked people had heard of this. They would usually then be expected to pack up their belongings and be escorted out without being allowed to say goodbye to anyone or even use the toilet.

However when I left at the end of my probation by mutual agreement, I was expected to work every single minute of my notice period including physically shuffling desks round so they could squeeze more people into the London office. While doing this on my last afternoon, I took great pleasure in telling my completely entitled boss that no I would NOT go and sweet talk the building management (it was in serviced offices) to let him break all the rules around room booking etc, as they had already told me that I was the only person they would go over and above for. I also told him at the same time that the occupiers of the lower floors would no longer allow them to use their meeting rooms etc, as that had only been done for me & I'd been told "those other rude bastards can shove it where the sun don't shine".

This was the same company that when recruiting for quite senior roles based in London, expected me to book candidates for interviews at 8am the following morning in Leeds - at their own expense of course. They lost almost every candidate...

Another company a friend worked for; at meetings to select a shortlist to interview for vacancies the MD would take the top half off the pile of CVs & dump them in the bin, saying "we don't want unlucky people working for us". HR cottoned on to this, and would put the no-hopers CVs at the top of the pile.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 01/12/2024 10:12

A doctor who had been arrested over a holiday weekend when he got drunk at home with his girlfriend, had a row, followed her in his car when she stormed off. Multiple calls were made to the police about his car driving erratically on a very busy road, and the police report said when they caught him he was throwing up wine. Came back to work and whined that we were all 'looking at him funny'.

NotmySundaybest · 01/12/2024 10:13

Service manager has a group grievance with over 20 individuals signed against him under investigation with allegations of bullying also external complaint leading to police investigation and multiple whistleblower complaints. Still not suspended and can make contact with staff via email..... only told to wfh.

GettingStuffed · 01/12/2024 10:16

DimplesToadfoot · 30/11/2024 18:55

Looking up and seeing a man in a balaclava, shouting at me "where's the effing money" then looking down and seeing the gun in his hand .... I don't remember much more

That happened to DSis, a day later his mum come into the shop and apologised to her but at the same time said she hoped he'd get a jail sentence this time.

Pudmyboy · 01/12/2024 10:33

RaggySock · 01/12/2024 02:59

A two year old walking up a set of stairs holding a comfort toy. She had it snatched out of her hand and was shouted at by a senior manager. The girl was traumatised.
The culture at the school meant I’d have been ostracised had I reported - so I left.
I’m still angry at myself for not speaking out.
This was a top, fee paying independent school.

This is terrible at any age, but two years? Was it a nursery?

DimplesToadfoot · 01/12/2024 10:41

GettingStuffed · 01/12/2024 10:16

That happened to DSis, a day later his mum come into the shop and apologised to her but at the same time said she hoped he'd get a jail sentence this time.

I'm glad your Dsis was able to go back to work the next day, and I hope he got his comeuppance.

I spent months in hospital, while I was there the robbers went after me to stop me from testifying, not realising I wasnt at home, they beat my partner to a pulp and set him on fire which killed him, the fire burned my house down and I struggled so much, I tried to go back to work but my mental health couldn't hack it.

The main guy that did this got away with it in the courts, however 20yrs later someone shot him, he had a huge funeral, horse drawn carriages, all over the newspapers, people saying how he was such a good man, I felt sick. I'd never wish anyone dead but good riddance to him

Pudmyboy · 01/12/2024 10:56

DimplesToadfoot · 01/12/2024 10:41

I'm glad your Dsis was able to go back to work the next day, and I hope he got his comeuppance.

I spent months in hospital, while I was there the robbers went after me to stop me from testifying, not realising I wasnt at home, they beat my partner to a pulp and set him on fire which killed him, the fire burned my house down and I struggled so much, I tried to go back to work but my mental health couldn't hack it.

The main guy that did this got away with it in the courts, however 20yrs later someone shot him, he had a huge funeral, horse drawn carriages, all over the newspapers, people saying how he was such a good man, I felt sick. I'd never wish anyone dead but good riddance to him

Oh no, that's absolutely terrible, I don't know how you get over all that, especially the 'grand funeral '. Just shows that 'cheats never prosper ' is a big lie. I hope you are getting support for all of your trauma @DimplesToadfoot

anicecuppateaa · 01/12/2024 11:12

My 1 year old dd died suddenly during the xmas holidays a few years ago. I emailed my manager (in complete shock) to tell her. She sent her condolences and asked when I would be free to do a handover call. She also proceeded to tell me I’d need a doctors note to take more than 5 days off (rather than using her discretion), despite there needing to be a post mortem etc. I emailed her my handover and got signed off sick for 3 months. I’ve never trusted her (or forgiven her) since.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 01/12/2024 11:51

TitusMoan · 30/11/2024 17:04

Senior teachers in a primary school refusing to contact Children’s Services following pupil disclosures of parental violence to them.

Christ - that's perverse! Why did they refuse??

endofthelinefinally · 01/12/2024 11:52

@anicecuppateaa

I am so sorry for your loss. That is absolutely shocking.
My son died just after I retired. I am still distraught over it and I don't know how I could have gone back to work. You never, ever get over the loss of a child. Flowers

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 01/12/2024 12:21

Many moons ago, i was a legal clerk, and one day I arrived at the office.

I saw the senior partner (Mr M), who was as white as a sheet.
His Mum had been in poor health, so I thought perhaps she had just died.

But, no.

We had about 10 personnel in the office from HMRC, who stuck to each member of our staff like glue, all day.
I looked after the archives, and had the boxes in the basement.
So, i was up and down the stairs all day, while Mr M was requesting this document, or bank statement, etc.

I had my own HMRC shadow, and she even followed me to the toilet!

They were investigating him for unpaid tax, and it was bloody awful.

His housekeeper called and i answered the phone, and she asked me to speak to him. He would always take a phone call, but because of what was going on, I said that 'he'll call you back'.

10 minutes later she called back, so i put her through.
It turns out that another half a dozen HMRC officials had turned up at his house and was searching it from top to bottom: including his wife's underwear drawer.

It was awful. They found no evidence that he hadn't paid his tax bills.
They had been tipped off by a disgruntled, and mentally unwell, former partner (Mr C).
Mr M kept everything, and Mr C would write increasingly crazy letters.
Even writing on the envelope:
Mr M (bastard)

So, naturally, Mr M was angry that they took the word of a man who was clearly in a mental health crisis.
Anyone who spoke to Mr C would see that.

Mr M took HMRC to court because of the way they had handled it.
He called it 'using a sledgehammer to crack a nut'.

I left the firm not long after, so i don't know what the outcome was.

Changingnameagain · 01/12/2024 12:36

Pumpkittenspice · 01/12/2024 09:50

Yep. The case is ongoing!

Well done you! I hope you're successful!

TroysMammy · 01/12/2024 13:37

Moving offices on a weekend, telling his staff not to tell anyone so people who rented office space and worked in conjunction with him turned up to work on Monday the place was bare. No furniture, no computers, no telephones, no staff.

The BBC made a tv programme about him and they called it The Call Centre.

Not a nice person at all.

RaggySock · 01/12/2024 14:10

@Pudmyboy

Yes - of a highly regarded private school.

JayJayEl · 01/12/2024 15:04

Pudmyboy · 01/12/2024 10:33

This is terrible at any age, but two years? Was it a nursery?

@pudmyboy @raggysock
Oh I've seen SO many similar happenings in so many different education settings (see my awful story on Page 3) but this has just reminded me of a particular event. Private nursery, toddler room (so ages 1.5 - 2.5ish), snack time. Milk and biscuits for snack. Children weren't allowed the biscuit until they finished the milk and lots found this tricky, but one little boy got particularly upset about it and grabbed a biscuit. Staff member grabbed it back out of his hands, shouted "Milk first, or no biscuit!!" and then proceeded to dunk HIS biscuits in HIS milk and ate it in front of him. When I tried to challenge her she said, "I'm not 2 years old!" and continued to eat it, periodically dunking it in is drink. She then had another biscuit! The poor 2 year old obviously became more and more upset until she confiscated his drink, removed him from the table, and put him in another room for "thinking time". 😔

Pumpkittenspice · 01/12/2024 15:13

Changingnameagain · 01/12/2024 12:36

Well done you! I hope you're successful!

I’ll update you in the thread, if I remember!

Pudmyboy · 01/12/2024 15:24

JayJayEl · 01/12/2024 15:04

@pudmyboy @raggysock
Oh I've seen SO many similar happenings in so many different education settings (see my awful story on Page 3) but this has just reminded me of a particular event. Private nursery, toddler room (so ages 1.5 - 2.5ish), snack time. Milk and biscuits for snack. Children weren't allowed the biscuit until they finished the milk and lots found this tricky, but one little boy got particularly upset about it and grabbed a biscuit. Staff member grabbed it back out of his hands, shouted "Milk first, or no biscuit!!" and then proceeded to dunk HIS biscuits in HIS milk and ate it in front of him. When I tried to challenge her she said, "I'm not 2 years old!" and continued to eat it, periodically dunking it in is drink. She then had another biscuit! The poor 2 year old obviously became more and more upset until she confiscated his drink, removed him from the table, and put him in another room for "thinking time". 😔

That is so cruel, how do these people get into childcare? And why, when they plainly don't like or care about kids!

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 01/12/2024 15:31

Pudmyboy · 01/12/2024 15:24

That is so cruel, how do these people get into childcare? And why, when they plainly don't like or care about kids!

Some people like having someone smaller and weaker than themselves to bully.

Thelittleweasel · 01/12/2024 15:48

@chbahjng @Booksandwine80

Years ago I was H&S rep and Union rep in a large civil service office in Wales. Multi floors and controlled access at every door. I was called by [outsourced] cleaners to an "accessible" toilet which they - reasonably - refused to clean.

On the floor, on a piece of paper next to the toilet pan, was a giant [faecal] stool! Our boss had to arrange for an extreme cleaner who turned up in full hazard clothing. Put up a notice within as to the unacceptable nature of this and advising perpetrator to seek medical attention. Happened twice more and we never heard any outcome.

oneeggisunoeuf · 01/12/2024 22:00

@Mh67 That is so appalling,I'm so sorry.

Sadly I've come across similar. I worked in HR and my bitch of a boss told an employee whose parents had died within weeks of each other, that she couldn't take any bereavement leave when her sister subsequently died, as she'd taken too much bereavement leave in that year.
The same boss told a line manager whose employee's daughter had died giving birth to a stillborn child that the staff member could have three days off, as stillborn children didn't count.

Zippidydoodah · 01/12/2024 23:02

oneeggisunoeuf · 01/12/2024 22:00

@Mh67 That is so appalling,I'm so sorry.

Sadly I've come across similar. I worked in HR and my bitch of a boss told an employee whose parents had died within weeks of each other, that she couldn't take any bereavement leave when her sister subsequently died, as she'd taken too much bereavement leave in that year.
The same boss told a line manager whose employee's daughter had died giving birth to a stillborn child that the staff member could have three days off, as stillborn children didn't count.

Oh my goodness. How very sad. 😢

Zippidydoodah · 01/12/2024 23:07

@DimplesToadfoot you poor thing. I just can’t imagine. I also hope you’re being well supported now 💐

TheBluntTurtle · 01/12/2024 23:28

Blocked staff toilet. We only had 2 toilets in total. No one unblocked the blocked one but people kept using it and putting toilet paper/ more poo on top of the mound already in there and it kept growing and growing and could not be flushed. This went on for days. Manager then marched everyone into the toilet and made them go in the cubicle one by one to look at it… it was my last day so I outright refused (and also had not contributed to the mound!).

also had bogie smeared toilet cubicle in another work place!

DimplesToadfoot · 02/12/2024 00:06

Zippidydoodah · 01/12/2024 23:07

@DimplesToadfoot you poor thing. I just can’t imagine. I also hope you’re being well supported now 💐

@Pudmyboy too

Thank you both, the only help I've ever got is antidepressants from the doctor, I did get 2 sleeping tablets when I told the doctor I couldn't sleep because of the nightmares

Ive been through so much other shit and none of it has killed me ... still here..... Just

SuperBlondie28 · 02/12/2024 17:40

My overweight male workmates hairy arse crack on a light hearted note .