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Disappointed with Modern Dating: My 25F sister struggles to find meaningful relationships, only encountering short-term flings. It seemed easier to find serious connections in my day. Any advice to improve her chances?

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KookyTaupePoster · 25/11/2024 20:34

Hi everyone,
I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind and get some advice. My younger sister, who’s 25, has been struggling with dating lately. She’s a wonderful person—kind, smart, and funny—but it seems like all the guys she meets are only interested in short-term flings. She’s really looking for something more meaningful, but the dating scene feels so much harder to navigate these days compared to when I was her age.
Back then, it felt easier to meet people who were serious about relationships, whether through friends, work, or even at social events. Now, with dating apps and everything moving so fast, it seems like genuine connections are becoming rare. To make things more challenging, the average age of marriage and having children is moving upwards, so it feels like there’s less urgency for people to settle down. While that’s not necessarily a bad thing, it does make the process of finding a committed partner feel longer and more complicated.
She’s feeling disheartened and unsure of what she can do to meet people who are serious about commitment. Does anyone have advice on how she can improve her chances of meeting the right people? Are there specific ways to filter for individuals looking for serious relationships, or are there other ways she could approach dating that might help?
Any personal experiences or tips would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance for your thoughts!

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Crinkle77 · 25/11/2024 22:58

She's only 25! Tell her to relax, don't try and force it. I think a lot of men her age won't be looking for commitment. If she has good friends, active social life, lots of hobbies she'll meet someone soon enough.

ViciousCurrentBun · 25/11/2024 23:19

So how long age were you her age?

MaryTwerps · 25/11/2024 23:20

You can tell by the profiles what sort of men they are. I would say dont waste time dating men when theres little chance e.g. some women date anyone to see how it goes.

At age 25-30 there should be plenty men looking for a serious proposition.

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