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Where can we visit that is definitely dog free?

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loubielou31 · 12/11/2024 22:33

Sorry this is a bit of a thread about a thread. My mum has quite a bad dog phobia, and it is becoming more difficult to think of places to visit with her because more and more places are dog friendly. I don't need to discuss the merits of this just suggestions of places that will definitely be dog free please. Visit to the beach in summer is spoilt for her (and consequently us) because even when there are no dogs allowed on the main beach, owners don't stick to the dog friendly areas.
We live in Bristol if people have specific places they know but general suggestions would also be great.
The zoo is one place we often visit.
Thanks

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placemats · 14/08/2025 14:13

I don't have a dog phobia, but I most certainly have a dog owner phobia, is there a hypnotherapy course for them?

mauvaiseherbe · 14/08/2025 14:26

COUNTRYANGEL · 14/08/2025 01:11

Just found this thread - so helpful.
Does anyone have specific suggestions for Yorkshire - I know thats a big area but although we are in South Yorkshire - would be prepared to travel🙂

Sculpture Park in Wakefield, huge area, look it up, excellent food, go early, lovely shop, then Hepworth Gallery and Garden,
also
Salts Mill in Shipley,

ClunkyPigeon · 14/08/2025 14:31

I’ve got a dog and I think it’s ridiculous how many places dogs are allowed into now. I also don’t really see that benefits most dogs to have to lie on cafe floors surrounded by all that noise and all those smells.

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IKEAJesus · 14/08/2025 14:39

mauvaiseherbe · 14/08/2025 14:26

Sculpture Park in Wakefield, huge area, look it up, excellent food, go early, lovely shop, then Hepworth Gallery and Garden,
also
Salts Mill in Shipley,

Both the Yorkshire Sculpture Park and Salts Mill allow dogs - Salts Mill seems to be small dogs you can carry, but that’s not the same as no dogs.

mauvaiseherbe · 14/08/2025 14:47

IKEAJesus · 14/08/2025 14:39

Both the Yorkshire Sculpture Park and Salts Mill allow dogs - Salts Mill seems to be small dogs you can carry, but that’s not the same as no dogs.

O No! since when? since lockdown? havn’t been to YSP for 3 years,
one of the joys was no dogs and Salts Mill, at New Year, saw no dogs.

I apologise for providing false imformation and thanks IJ for putting me right!

ErrolTheDragon · 14/08/2025 14:53

mauvaiseherbe · 14/08/2025 14:47

O No! since when? since lockdown? havn’t been to YSP for 3 years,
one of the joys was no dogs and Salts Mill, at New Year, saw no dogs.

I apologise for providing false imformation and thanks IJ for putting me right!

We took our dog to YSP well before lockdown, about 2016/17. Staff were clearing up after some catered event amd bestowed a spare steak sandwich on him so it was memorably dog friendly then.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/08/2025 14:58

COUNTRYANGEL · 14/08/2025 01:11

Just found this thread - so helpful.
Does anyone have specific suggestions for Yorkshire - I know thats a big area but although we are in South Yorkshire - would be prepared to travel🙂

Quite a lot of nature reserves don’t allow dogs (though some do). I just had a quick look, is this any good for you?
https://www.ywt.org.uk/nature-reserves/north-cave-wetlands-nature-reserve

North Cave Wetlands | YWT

From quarries and lorries to avocets and bitterns, the ongoing transformation of this working sand and gravel quarry into a shining example of a 21st-century wetland is truly extraordinary.

https://www.ywt.org.uk/nature-reserves/north-cave-wetlands-nature-reserve

LWS151820 · 25/08/2025 15:15

bozzabollix · 12/11/2024 22:36

Has she ever thought about therapy? It’s going to be pretty limiting and difficult to have a dog phobia. I had a fear of flying which is harder to overcome as you can’t get the regular exposure. With dogs there’s no such barrier and there will be programmes.

Therapy won't change the fact it's a completely valid phobia. Dogs attack me and my kids almost every time we leave the house. The dogs and their feckless owners are the problem here, not the frightened person.

LWS151820 · 25/08/2025 15:16

Undisclosedlocation · 12/11/2024 22:41

I agree with the therapy. Near me (Essex) there is a very good Cynophobia charity who runs courses to help. I’m sure others are available around the country

The person isn't the problem. It's the dogs and their owners who need to change their behaviour.

amicisimma · 25/08/2025 16:33

KenAdams · 12/11/2024 22:50

Literally any museum or gallery? Most restaurants? Kew. Botanic Gardens. Loads of places. Assistance dogs are allowed by law anywhere though so she can't avoid them.

I nearly tripped over a small dog in the Royal Academy. The light at floor level was dim and I didn't see it.

It didn't seem very interested in the paintings.

amicisimma · 25/08/2025 16:57

YouCantFightInHereThisIsTheWarRoom · 14/11/2024 22:23

Oh, and to the people suggesting therapy. NO. Howabout the dog people and the dogs have therapy so that the dogs can stay home and not bother the rest of us? I don't need therapy. I just don't like dogs.

See also 'take antihistamines' for those who are allergic to dogs.

  1. Why should a person take drugs when it should be possible to avoid the allergen?

  2. No amount of antihistamine prevents my DH from ending up on a nebuliser and IV drugs when he gets too close to a dog for too long. (Even a 'hypoallergenic' one. No such thing exists.)

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