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Friendly or flirty sushiman?

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eyeofthebeholder · 09/11/2024 20:48

There's this great Japanese restaurant in my neighborhood I used to go to a lot, either by myself or with friends (just for the record, it is cozy and not one of those places where you feel embarrassed to go alone). A few months ago I noticed they had a new sushiman, who came across as very friendly and skilled at the job. He even sent me complimentary items, which struck me as a nice way to make a good impression on the customers. Before leaving, I made a point of thanking him for the excellent service, but I wasn't overly friendly, just respectful, at least IMO. Went back there a few weeks later, just greeted him and sat down. Next thing I know, my sushi plate arrives, with little hearts drawn on them with sauce, as well as some complimentary items. I learned later that the complimentary thing was not going on anymore, as he'd been working there for a while now. I didn't know what to do, and when I looked up he smiled and asked if I'd liked it. I felt so embarrassed that I just mumbled thank you. I never went back there ever again, as I thought he might think I was going there for the "free lunch" or the "special sushi with little hearts", even though it really is my favorite restaurant. AIBU to feel that he crossed a line there, and I should never go back?

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ScottBakula · 10/11/2024 03:43

You complemented him on his food prep , he liked this so gave you a little more food / attention, is that right?
If so keep going back , enjoy the food but don't ask for / expect more than what you pay for.
It may well be that he gave extra food to a few people and the owner has had a word with him re cost - profits.
If you think he is flirting with you and you are both single ( make sure he is ) and you fancy him the go for it , have fun.

SomeSuperhero · 10/11/2024 03:48

They do this all the time at my local sushi restaurant to customers they recognise as regulars. “Crossed the line”? Unlikely. It isn’t like he drew a spurting cock. That would be crossing a line.

Milly0h · 10/11/2024 03:51

SomeSuperhero · 10/11/2024 03:48

They do this all the time at my local sushi restaurant to customers they recognise as regulars. “Crossed the line”? Unlikely. It isn’t like he drew a spurting cock. That would be crossing a line.

LOL this comment is spot on and so funny Grin

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Bunnyhair · 10/11/2024 04:02

SomeSuperhero · 10/11/2024 03:48

They do this all the time at my local sushi restaurant to customers they recognise as regulars. “Crossed the line”? Unlikely. It isn’t like he drew a spurting cock. That would be crossing a line.

Omg this made my day

CalicoPusscat · 10/11/2024 05:26

He was just being nice.

eyeofthebeholder · 10/11/2024 09:39

SomeSuperhero · 10/11/2024 03:48

They do this all the time at my local sushi restaurant to customers they recognise as regulars. “Crossed the line”? Unlikely. It isn’t like he drew a spurting cock. That would be crossing a line.

Oh well, I'm really glad he didn't do that, as it would've been a sackable offence. But I get it.
Thing is it'd never happened before, and the other staff are always very reserved.

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Zebrassiere · 11/11/2024 00:20

Spurting cock on a sushi would definitely make me want to come back!

Yoehxn · 11/11/2024 00:49

Once I went to a sushi restaurant alone and the chef arranged the sushi in a heart shape! I thought it was just him being sweet (assumed he felt bad for me dining alone) but maybe this is a thing!?

coxesorangepippin · 11/11/2024 02:41

I've never had this in any resto, let alone sushi???

eyeofthebeholder · 11/11/2024 03:20

Yoehxn · 11/11/2024 00:49

Once I went to a sushi restaurant alone and the chef arranged the sushi in a heart shape! I thought it was just him being sweet (assumed he felt bad for me dining alone) but maybe this is a thing!?

That's genius! Maybe it is a thing. A Sargeant Sushi's Lonely Hearts Club Band kind of thing. I can even picture them singing: "We're Sargeant Sushi's Lonely Hearts Club Band, we hope you have enjoyed the fish." 🍣🍣

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