If DD can’t attend school, you will need an EOTAS/EOTIS package. The ed psych report should be highlighting needs, provision. That along with other evidence gathered, such as that from OT, SALT, clinical psychologist, during the EHCNA process should inform the provision in the EHCP.
EOTAS packages are completely bespoke to the individual’s needs. What does DD enjoy doing?
Think about:
Tuition - online or F2F. 1:1 or group. What subjects? Or even not academic tuition.
Therapies - e.g. animal-assisted therapy, CBT, OT (including sensory OT, SALT, art therapy…
Exercise/sport - exercise equipment for home, a PT who will come to the house, online dance class... As DD feels more able to leave the house, horse riding, swimming, tennis…
Cooking lessons/music lessons/chess lessons
Mentor - online or in person. If DD enjoys gaming, look at Mindjam. As DD is more able to leave the house, accessing the community.
Socialising - this could be unstructured with a budget for e.g. gaming online or as DD feels more able, it could be at structured groups such as a drama group or Scouts or less structured but out of the house with trips out to the shop or cafe or...
As DD feels more able to leave the house, things like a care farm or gaming AP.
Then move to thinking about equipment/resources/memberships/subscriptions (including subscription boxes like Spectrum Space boxes where suitable) and professional time.