How did you deal with meeting the “other woman”

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Divorced for 2 years.

So far I’ve had no occasion to meet her. Ex has never forced a meeting, DC stay with them obviously but no need for us to ever talk or meet.

Something coming up this month which we will both attend. Ex did call and say she would like to be there but wouldn’t attend if I had strong feelings about it. I’ve said let her come.

So how did you deal with the first meeting? How would you deal with it?

@VictoriaAlbert I feel the same, I really like her.

She's also doing so much more for my child now than I'm able to for various reasons. I'm forever grateful I took the approach I'm suggesting to OP.