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GreenPebbles · 04/11/2024 13:05

I need to get some advice please. I don't drive. I know how to drive. I just don't drive. It's because I can't afford to keep a car on the road. It's too expensive.

My work is within walking distance of my home and I am lucky like that.

However I have some issues in work. Every day and every week is different. Sometimes I have some flexibility and then other times work can be full on and too much and too intense.

Like during the summer, I worked three weeks solid without any break and then I only got a week off because I became ill with covid. Then it was back to work again.

Every day is different. I finished up a 9 day stint on Friday and before that I was working 6 days a week for about three weeks before that.

This is taking a toll on me. For sure. It's just too much. I don't want to co tongue like this.

When your working aschedule like this, noone really understands the implications of this. My home is like a drop in centre.

It's just I spent all weekend cleaning my. I am not done yet but I got a lot of it done. I was changing my bedclothes last night and I thought this is insane. The last time I did that was in August. There was no time since then. I lived in squalor because there's no time to clean. I am now able to see parts of my bedroom floor that I haven't seen in months. I vacuumed my bedroom floor for the first time since May. I never once got a chance during the summer.

When there's only small little gaps in time, I only get a chance to catch up with things like personal hygiene and laundry and maybe the daily chores. But there was no time to provide more into a bigger clean.

It's just I got so much done over Saturday and Sunday this weekend at home.

I never want to work the way I am ever again. I know if I stay where I am stints like that is only right around the corner for me again.

I need work that will provide me with proper time off. Factory work seems appealing to me where I could clock in and clock out Monday to Friday and possibly even have a half day on Friday. With weekends off. If weekends aren't off, overtime pay will be paid appropriately. And likely it wouldn't be every weekend either.

My issue is that I don't drive and it's so daunting to get out of my comfort zone and maybe seek work that will involve a commute. A longer walk perhaps with a bus journey too.

I'm not happy where I am currently. Some times I have some nice hours and flexibility but then other times it's just too too too much.

Every time I work a stint like this that runs into weeks I get ill too.

I think if this was any other industry and I was working hours like this, I would get pain and incredible amount but because it's care work it's minimum wage.

I used to know someone working on rigs three weeks on and one week off and he can pay for his own home without a mortgage such is his income. I should be rich with the amount of hours I have worked but I am not.

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Breadcat24 · 04/11/2024 14:57

If you are in the UK (or other EU countries) your working hours are not legal and you should push back against your employer

GreenPebbles · 06/11/2024 19:43

Would a GP sign me out of work so that I can get a breather space from work? What would I say to my GP too?

My work is so so so so stressful.

I am required to go to work tomorrow morning and bring a bag with me and stay overnight. That's work all day tomorrow until whatever time of the night and I get to lie down to a bed. Then get up and work in Friday morning and work for the day. I know there is a party planned for Friday evening so that means I will likely also be working Friday night. You would think that I would be allowed to finish at a reasonable hour on Friday evening since being in work since Thursday morning. But nope.

I hate this. Get up and go to work on an Thursday morning and stay in work til Friday night. It's not the first time they did this to me.

I hate living in squalor. I cleaned half of my room and there is still more to do. I had having to squeeze in my own needs in whatever little gaps that they give me. When any other job it will be like Monday to Friday work and clock out and go home in the evening.

You would think they would give me an early evening this evening knowing the schedule that they will dump on me for the next two days.

The thing is I am required to study a course as well. A module in care to satisfy the law. I'm stunted to be quite honest. Like, how and when?

I worked three weekends in a row from September to October and that was with Monday to Friday work. Then I had a 9 day stint. Then I get one weekend off (last weekend) and I become ill. I am back to work and this is it.

But I also know this will be it in the run up to Christmas. Long days and evenings and nights and weekends and parties galore while the work falls onto my back.

How am I supposed to study and when? Do they expect me to give me sleep? I was actually told to bring my study to work and any time I get a gap or a break I can study in work.

This work is just exhausting.

Full stop.

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GreenPebbles · 07/11/2024 15:38

Oh my god, I'm in the toilet in tears in work. I won't be going back into work ever again as soon as I have today-tomorrow off. I am going to kill myself if I ever have to work like this again and I swear.
I had a lady come to relieve me if my work and to give me a break. For 2.30 and that's lovely only she sat on her fucking ass and did not take over. It was just there about 5 minutes again when I ran from my work because ei had to go to the toilet and I was in tears shouting at her to take over from me. You see I am still wearing the same fanny pad that I put into my knickers at 7 o clock this morning. Why am I not allowed to changed my used period pad? Why do I have to kill assault someone for something basic? I would actually jow do better in prison. I seriously would. If I started work in any other job at 8 am I would had at least an hour's lunch break by now. My god that fucking cunt of a relief person.
What a fucking job. I'm going to fucking kill myself if I ever do another week here. I swear to god. I am gone. Gone. Gone. Gone.
Why is suicide an attractive option for a break? Even when I am dead those cunts will dig me up out of my grave and make me work or at least piss into my grave.
7 o clock in the morning I placed a pad into my knickers. It is 3.30 pm and I had to cry and beg just to change my pad. My fucking god almighty.

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GreenPebbles · 07/11/2024 15:40

Why do I have to kill myself for a break? I will kill

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