Try keep this short & sweet... playing on my mind...
I'm due to have baby in 8 weeks.
Me and partner still have our own houses as we are/was in the process of sorting out both to get one together.
2 months ago my parents bought a really high speck mattress. It didn't fit their bed so they very kindly offered to GIVE it to me.
My partner hates the mattress and refuses to sleep with me overnight because he doesn't like the mattress? am I being sensitive to think he's selfish? I'm always on my own as he finishes work late and goes home to his own house to eat & sleep. I feel so lonely & neglected.
I've told him how I feel and he says
"Sorry for working so hard" he has no empathy.
He has provided really well for the baby he isn't tight financially but with love he is. I feel if he really loved me nothing would stop him being with me near to birth??
He lives 10 miles away. I could stay at his but I have a son from previous relationship who needs to be up for school etc and settled so it makes sense for him to stay here.
I feel right on the back burner. Feel like I'm drifting away from him. I don't get kisses and cuddles at night and his arms round me. Normal stuff.
On the weekend last week he took me out for dinner. I made myself look nice really made the effort as much as you can at 32 weeks preg...
he picked me up and within 10 mins I was crying all my make up all over my face because I said I'm having a funny turn I've got sick and hot can u have the car window down and he lost his temper because he said he was cold. Again, no empathy for how I felt.
He's really hurting me x