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Do you need your parent/s to die before April 2026? *MNHQ adding content warning mentions suicide*

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Spatulation · 30/10/2024 23:18

Absolutely reeling that we're losing the farm that my grandfather bought, my father expanded and my son hoped to takeover.

The budget today means that we'll owe £1000000 in tax and we won't be able to get a mortgage as that's 5 times our annual income and over 35000 times bigger than last year's profit.

We own soil. That's it.

Agriculture has the highest suicide rate in any profession - sadly I can see it hitting an all time high in the next 18 months. My father (83) is already talking about it.

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LBFseBrom · 31/10/2024 10:49

I get that but if the farm is big enough, some of it could go, surely. However if the family don't want to do that, fair enough.

It may not work out as badly as the op thinks, things often don't. There's not much point worrying about it now, dad could live to his nineties.

peanutbuttertoasty · 31/10/2024 10:51

Solomotree · 31/10/2024 10:46

I don’t understand if farming is so awful and the suicide rate is so high why would you want to take over the farm? Cash out and have £5m

Oh yes, who needs farms after all?

jesus wept!

Sooverwork · 31/10/2024 10:51

HalloweenHaribo · 30/10/2024 23:38

Well if you actually wanted to start a thread with the main problem being your dad wants to take his own life, people might be more understanding and sympathetic.

But as your main worry is not inheriting as much money as you thought you would, you've come across as incredibly cold and crass.

Yes sums it up perfectly

Jessie1259 · 31/10/2024 10:52

I have experience of both sides, I have a family farm background and can imagine this is just awful for those people who have had farms going back generations and make little for the amount of work done but see it as a way of life.

But where I live there are huge estate owners who dabble in a little farming to get the breaks while actually working in finance/banking and barely visiting the estate as they spend most of the time in London or in one of their many other properties. They are the uber rich and I'm not sorry that they're going to be hit.

crumblingschools · 31/10/2024 10:52

@LBFseBrom so what happens when you get to the next generation, sell another bit off? They don’t generate much income now, so how will selling bits off help long term?

notanothernamechange24 · 31/10/2024 10:53

XjustagirlX · 31/10/2024 10:45

He needs to hand the ownership over to the next generation now. Get some tax advice. I’m sorry your dad is feeling like this but there are ways around it.

Handing it on to the next generation doesn't work though. What if people die out of expected order?
Farming is considered to be one of the most dangerous jobs. Farmers are killed every single year on farm. Tractor or machinery accidents, issues with livestock or slurry.
That's before you add in unexpected illnesses etc.
passing it on could actually make it far worse.

crumblingschools · 31/10/2024 10:54

@Sooverwork she wasn’t going to inherit any money.

Brananan · 31/10/2024 10:54

But where I live there are huge estate owners who dabble in a little farming to get the breaks while actually working in finance/banking and barely visiting the estate as they spend most of the time in London or in one of their many other properties. They are the uber rich and I'm not sorry that they're going to be hit

What have they got to do with anything? Also, you've just assumed everything that you've written here, as you cannot possibly know any of this for sure.

MrsPeregrine · 31/10/2024 10:54

theemptinessmachine · 31/10/2024 03:22

Hoarded wealth? Have you thought that there may be generations that have worked on this farm? Why should effort and hard work and ambition be punished because some lazy arses do fuck all and expect everything?

That’s typical of the response they give though. It’s nothing more than envy from people who think the world owes them a living and aren’t prepared to put in any hard graft themselves. They have no appreciation of the work it takes to build and manage a farming business. Their ignorance is astounding.

Purplebunnie · 31/10/2024 10:55

crumblingschools · 31/10/2024 10:49

@Solomotree that sounds a bit like posters telling teachers if they don’t like the job just quit. We have seen the impact on schools with teachers leaving. What happens if farmers sell up? Who is going to buy all these farms?

China?? They seem to be buying land all over the planet. I read something somewhere that they can't produce enough rice in their own country so are buying land in other countries to produce it.

MrsPeregrine · 31/10/2024 10:56

Jessie1259 · 31/10/2024 10:52

I have experience of both sides, I have a family farm background and can imagine this is just awful for those people who have had farms going back generations and make little for the amount of work done but see it as a way of life.

But where I live there are huge estate owners who dabble in a little farming to get the breaks while actually working in finance/banking and barely visiting the estate as they spend most of the time in London or in one of their many other properties. They are the uber rich and I'm not sorry that they're going to be hit.

And what about all the regular farming families. This policy won’t affect the super rich wealthy landowners will it? But it will affect all the normal farmers. (And I come from a farming background too)

notanothernamechange24 · 31/10/2024 10:57

LBFseBrom · 31/10/2024 10:49

I get that but if the farm is big enough, some of it could go, surely. However if the family don't want to do that, fair enough.

It may not work out as badly as the op thinks, things often don't. There's not much point worrying about it now, dad could live to his nineties.

Unlikely. We are not talking big farms at all here. A significant proportion of the land could go which would make a lot of farms unworkable.

For those who are interested look up Joe Seels on YouTube or Olly Harrison. Both did quite informative vlogs yesterday on the situation and how it will affect them

ballybooboo · 31/10/2024 10:58

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upinaballoon · 31/10/2024 10:59

Solomotree · 31/10/2024 10:46

I don’t understand if farming is so awful and the suicide rate is so high why would you want to take over the farm? Cash out and have £5m

It's hard to define how people feel about land that they work and touch and walk on.

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 31/10/2024 11:00

I don’t understand if farming is so awful and the suicide rate is so high why would you want to take over the farm? Cash out and have £5m

Because it's a vocation.
What's the saying about knowing the price of everything and the value of nothing?

IAmNotALoon · 31/10/2024 11:01

Op I am so sorry your family is in this situation! I think what Reeves did in the budget is a disgusting attack on farming families who just need to be left alone to farm, look after the countryside, the flood plains and the environment and above all produce food to feed the nation. We need food security as a nation, particularly with climate change and war on the horizon, there might come a time when we can't import as much food as we do. I hope this will be reversed. Farms are businesses that can't afford to loose a huge portion of their assets and continue functioning. Making a living out of farming is tough enough as it is. I know this government wants to build all over the countryside but that's extremely stupid and short- sighted. Please get your dad some mental health help and keep a very careful eye on him if he is talking of suicide, in other words make sure you check up on him frequently and try to keep anything that he could use to hurt himself out of easy reach. We had to do this with my daughter recently, I know supervising an adult continuously is going to be harder. We know a family who has just lost a father to suicide, it's devastating.

ballybooboo · 31/10/2024 11:01

Galaxyheart · 30/10/2024 23:55

I have also worried about this Op the amount of farmers who commit suicide is high enough without this worry and unfortunately people only see farmers as asset rich rather than the majority just scraping by earning less than minimum wage due to the long hours l

I don't think it's the rich landowner farmer who kill themselves? It's the tenant farmers. This may help them because maybe you can sell a bit of the farm to them?

Lb603 · 31/10/2024 11:01

Im so sorry this is happening. It’s honestly horrific- were going to see farms up and down the country put up for sale in the coming weeks and months. The government let us down at every opportunity.

Panama2 · 31/10/2024 11:01

If farms have to sold or parcels of land to pay tax who is going to be buying them? What are they going to do with them? How much will they pay for them? We barely managed to feed ourselves in WW2. How will we manage if we have to rely on more and more imports where is the food coming from. What will happen to our countryside it is managed and maintained by farmers.

Havalona · 31/10/2024 11:03

I think all farmers should lobby King Charles about Inheritance Tax on farms. I'm sure he will be affected by this move.

ballybooboo · 31/10/2024 11:05

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 31/10/2024 11:00

I don’t understand if farming is so awful and the suicide rate is so high why would you want to take over the farm? Cash out and have £5m

Because it's a vocation.
What's the saying about knowing the price of everything and the value of nothing?

Exactly. They would rather hang on to the one million owed in tax and not sell any of their assets or get a loan than their father live out his natural life.

Cyclebabble · 31/10/2024 11:05

Some of the messages here are awful. OP the practical thing to do is to take legal advice on how to minimise the farm on transfer.

HPFA · 31/10/2024 11:05

MrsPeregrine · 31/10/2024 10:54

That’s typical of the response they give though. It’s nothing more than envy from people who think the world owes them a living and aren’t prepared to put in any hard graft themselves. They have no appreciation of the work it takes to build and manage a farming business. Their ignorance is astounding.

You wonder why there's no empathy and then there are comments like these?

Many people are working hard only to see most of their hard earned money go straight to a landlord - they have no hope of ever having a real home or anything to pass onto their kids.

That's not even counting the sick and disabled living on a pittance.

Do you not realise how it sounds to the millions in similar situations being told they should have "sympathies" for people, who at the worst are going to have sell up businesses for a substantial sum of money?

ByGaslight · 31/10/2024 11:06

Many sympathies OP. There needs to be so much more information in the public domain about what UK farmers actually do and better advocacy for farmers. Did the govt. think this tax would get past without too much scrutiny because many people don't understand how UK farming works? Supermarket shoppers still don't think enough about where their food comes from globally and the conditions under which it's produced. Do they understand what food security means and what happens when farm after farm is sold to 'developers' piecemeal?

While I'm very much for family farms continuing, I would, though, bind the transfer of land according to use. And there needs to be more conversation about farm workers. But I am concerned about the many burdens on UK farmers.

Jaxhog · 31/10/2024 11:07

flyingant · 30/10/2024 23:34

Do you mean you'll have to sell the farm to pay the 1 million, and you'll be left with 5 million?

You are completely missing the point. In order to pay the IHT, they will have to sell the farm. Which is their livelihood. They probably employ other people too, who will lose their jobs. They will probably struggle to find a buyer, as it will be farmland, not land to build on.

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