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Was Halloween a big thing when you were growing up?

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BiggyJ · 28/10/2024 16:29

As in - did you carve pumpkins/turnips, go Trick or Treating, have themed parties etc?
I can't say I did, or can't recall it being a big deal as it is now for my own teen DCs.

(Born mid 70s so was a kid during the 80s )

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TheChosenTwo · 28/10/2024 17:29

I remember my mum throwing a Halloween party for me and some friends back in the 90’s but just once, I don’t recall it being an annual thing. We didn’t go out trick or treating.
I’ve had quite a few Halloween parties for my kids and their school friends but they’re older now so that’s stopped (thank god, Halloween is not something I really enjoy or wish to get involved in despite the parties which were something the kids asked for!).

DappledThings · 28/10/2024 17:31

Onthesideofthespiders · 28/10/2024 17:10

I’m guessing that you’re English, OP?
Its always been a big thing in Scotland. The English didn’t take it up as much until it you saw the Americans doing it in movies. But guising and turnip carving was always big up here.

Quite. There are always posters accusing people like me who grew up in 80s and 90s Englamd and didn't really have any experience of Halloween and see it as American of being ignorant of other British traditions outside England. I'm not in the least ignorant of these, but the Halloween we have in England now with trick or treating in supermarket witch costumes and serving pumpkins is all US TV/film Halloween and nothing to do with Scottish traditions.

I find it utterly bizarre seeing my village and every branch of the supermarkets turn into a little suburban US town for a few days and doing it makes me cringe myself inside out. It's so borrowed and nothing to do with me I find it too weird. Only had to go out one year so far and managed to get out of it again this year by timing a long drive home from my parents over Thursday evening.

GetDownkeith · 28/10/2024 17:31

BabstheBounder · 28/10/2024 16:44

Yep, massive. Halloween was the major event in the young person's year that could guarantee a supply of sweets that would last till Christmas time.

Guising was huge. Most costumes were home made (not just the bin bag and paper witch hat type, paper mache was a common feature in some of our costumes) and everyone went out guising, but not with our parents. The parents stayed at home to open the door to guisers.

We had to learn a turn though in order to get the sweets. No song/poem/joke/dance then no sweet.

After a night collecting sweets, nuts, 5ps and apples, it was home for a party of sorts- apple dooking, eating a pancake off a string that was doused in treacle/golden syrup and then grabbing a marshmallow from a tray of flour with you teeth. Ah, the JOY.

Decorations weren't as showy, but it was a big deal.

Chat about costumes, turns and who you were going guising with went on for weeks leading up to it.

And my poor Dad had to carve the neep lantern. Triangle eyes and a jaggy mouth was as far as you could go with a neep. Then inside was the stump of a candle, string through the top and off you went (in your flammable bin bag costume) in the cold and dark. The smell of burnt turnip is the smell of Halloween to me!

This was my childhood hallowe’ens in Scotland too. All the local kids dressed up and went out.
monkey nuts and apples featured heavily.

I LOVE the smell of bunt turnip. Might need to buy a neep and get dh to carve it for me and put a real candle in it.

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arinya · 28/10/2024 17:32

I’m 48 and trick or treating was not a thing. I don’t remember celebrating Halloween at all. Bonfire night was more of a thing, going to a display etc.

BabstheBounder · 28/10/2024 17:32

@RichinVitaminR I think you missed the fact that Halloween was very much a Scottish thing. And has been for a very, very long time.

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 28/10/2024 17:34

PortobelloToad · 28/10/2024 16:53

Yes, grew up in Scotland, born mid-80s. We called it guising and did a little joke, song or dance. Then home and we did dooking for apples. Sometimes we carved a neep and put a candle in to carry with us. It was very early dark in Aberdeenshire by the end of October. My costume was always a black cat, tail made from a wire coat hanger wrapped in old tights.

Me too - Aberdeenshire, born mid 80s, cat costume (tail made out of one leg of a pair of tights stuffed with newspaper, eyeliner whiskers), neepy lantern. One year we tied a black bin bag around the dog so he had bat wings.

UnderOverUp · 28/10/2024 17:36

Yes, I can remember being quite scared of it in the mid 90s, our house got egged when we didn’t have any treats in!

GiddyRobin · 28/10/2024 17:42

RichinVitaminR · 28/10/2024 17:29

I didn’t either! ‘90s kid here, I wasn’t allowed to go trick or treating (I knew other kids who did though), I don’t really remember seeing carved pumpkins about much. I think it’s since we’re all online all the damn time now and American TV/culture has had even more influence than it previously did. Halloween was never a particularly British thing. I used to be more excited about Bonfire Night as a kid!

Halloween wasn't a particularly English thing, but it's always been big in Ireland and Scotland. It's not American - it's based on very old Celtic traditions and festivals about respecting the dead, moving into the darker half of the year, and celebrating the shift. My dad was carving turnips and guising in the 60s in Ireland.

Smoresandtoast · 28/10/2024 17:43

Forgot to say in my post earlier , North East of England, and it was a thing, but it is near Scotland, maybe that is why!

arinya · 28/10/2024 17:46

Yes forgot to add, I live in southern England. But I hear Halloween has always been an event in Scotland, Ireland and parts of northern England.

RichinVitaminR · 28/10/2024 17:49

GiddyRobin · 28/10/2024 17:42

Halloween wasn't a particularly English thing, but it's always been big in Ireland and Scotland. It's not American - it's based on very old Celtic traditions and festivals about respecting the dead, moving into the darker half of the year, and celebrating the shift. My dad was carving turnips and guising in the 60s in Ireland.

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Ah my mistake, I’m actually Welsh and grew up in Mid Wales! I was aware of some links to Celtic traditions but have only ever seen the more American influence creeping in in the area I currently live in. I have little knowledge about the carving of turnips and guising but it sounds much more interesting that the Halloween traditions that I’m more familiar with (those that I assumed to be American!) 😊

Waytoomanycoasters · 28/10/2024 17:49

Yes!!! Late 80's/early 90's. I lived on an army camp and it was amazing. We were allowed out trick or treating without adult supervision, kind of freedom I can't imagine granting my DC in our town. The adults would always dress up and be ready with treats. We were expected to have a 'trick' prepared though. We would always do a pumpkin and hand make our costumes. I loved it.

Moved away to the countryside when I was 7, middle of nowhere and no opportunity to trick or treat. Gutted.

Redhothoochycoocher · 28/10/2024 17:50

Yes! But my mum is American and DOES Halloween. I love it, carved our pumpkins yesterday

GiddyRobin · 28/10/2024 17:53

RichinVitaminR · 28/10/2024 17:49

Ah my mistake, I’m actually Welsh and grew up in Mid Wales! I was aware of some links to Celtic traditions but have only ever seen the more American influence creeping in in the area I currently live in. I have little knowledge about the carving of turnips and guising but it sounds much more interesting that the Halloween traditions that I’m more familiar with (those that I assumed to be American!) 😊

That makes sense! I think lots of the American traditions are based around older ones, though there's definitely a lot more decor than we had back in the day. Then again, if you go back even further they had big bonfires and whole villages would decorate and have festivals! 😁 It's really interesting, sorry if I sounded a bit cagey there; every year I end up saying it a million times and seem to get myself into a mini tizz. 🤣

Have to say, I also love American Halloween! My best friend goes all out and it's amazing!

Pablova · 28/10/2024 17:53

Modern day Halloween is adapted from the Celtic festival of Samhain which Scottish and Irish migrants brought to America.

it was always a big celebration growing up in Ireland, house decorated, carved turnips. Bobbing for apples, brack with a ring hidden in it, and a bonfire display with sparklers. We would dress up in homemade costumes as witches and ghosts and go ‘guising’ trick or treating’ around neighbours houses and you would have to ‘perform’ for either a handful of nuts or tangerines or coppers. ( 1 or 2p coins)

Our village still does a Samhain parade on the 31st and everyone brings their carved pumpkins for display on the beach.

RandyBentwick · 28/10/2024 17:54

80's Ireland. "Spooking" (never used "trick or treating") with siblings and friends wearing black bin bags or white sheets, masks. Then back to a neighbourhood house with our haul of monkey nuts and sweets for Halloween games. Most years there would be a nearby bonfire too. As we got a bit older we'd watch horror movies (Nightmare on Elm St, Halloween, etc) in the lead up to the big night. Loved it 👻

Elphame · 28/10/2024 17:55

No not at all. If anything, we celebrated Diwali. I used to love making the paper lanterns to decorate the garden.

My first taste of Halloween was from an ex-pat New Yorker in my class who had a Halloween party. Even when we returned to the UK, it wasn't a "thing".

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 28/10/2024 17:55

Yes. Carved pumpkins, went trick or treating every year, went to a couple of Halloween parties. Born 1994.

user1471523071 · 28/10/2024 17:56

Born in early 70s and Halloween was a huge event in Scotland growing up. We all got dressed up, had Halloween games and dooking for apples and nuts. My mum always made Halloween treats such as treacle scones and toffee apples. We had sweets, but not really chocolate. Carved turnips and then pumpkins once they became more available as so much easier to carve! We went to neighbours houses and we always had to do a joke or a small Halloween song in exchange for sweets. We didn't call it trick or treating until I was much older. Lots of great memories.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 28/10/2024 17:59

Yes. I am Scottish and it was always a big thing.

There would always be a big brownie guide party around Halloween time. Then we would visit our grandparents for some Halloween fun. Don't would end up being a full on week of celebrations.

Halloween night itself we'd go out guising round all the neighbours with a carrier bag which would end up full of nuts, oranges, sweets and cash.

Loved the smell of the tumshie lanterns.

Shadowhunter12 · 28/10/2024 17:59

South Wales here. Born mid 70s and we went out in bin bags with a carved swede that my poor mother must have spent the entire day trying to carve. Definitely used to have a trick or joke to do for the reward that may have been sweets or small coins etc. We were only allowed to knock on the houses where we knew the residents.

RedFronds · 28/10/2024 18:01

Yes it was quite a big deal where was growing up in the North East of England in the late seventies and early eighties.

We dressed up, carved a turnip and practiced our Halloween songs and rhymes.

Dressing up was definitely more simple though. There were the five standard masks - Frankenstein's monster with the bolts on was the most coverted. There was the witches hat, green face paint and a bin bag or the classic ghost in a bed sheet.

Murpe · 28/10/2024 18:03

When I was little, I remember trick or treaters coming to the house that my family moved out of in 1985, and then doing it myself a couple of times when I was a bit older (old enough for it to be me and my siblings alone, we didn't do it as very young children with our parents). We bobbed apples and stuff at home.

From the years I remember better, we'd always get a number of trick or treaters, but not loads. I've been bemused by the posts I've seen on twitter etc saying, "when did Hallowe'en become such a thing in the UK?", as from my own experience, it always was.

For Bonfire Night, I haven't seen a Guy since the last 80s though, but do recall that being a not-unusual sight on my outer London suburb high street. I rather liked that lots of schools had displays and bonfires, as there was always something not-too-huge to go to.

FatOaf · 28/10/2024 18:08

No. I remember having a couple of attempts at carving lanterns out of turnips. Because they're not hollow like pumpkins, they are very hard to carve. I don't remember seeing a pumpkin before I became an adult. Having tasted them, I'm now very glad we didn't have them.

Some neighbours used to have big parties for hallowe'en and/or bonfire night (very close together, so didn't usually have both) and new year's eve. I can remember falling asleep on the floor in the hall waiting for my mum & dad to stop boozing so we could go home. I have vague memories of bobbing for apples at hallowe'en parties and baking potatoes in foil in the dying bonfire at Guy Fawkes parties. Oh, and kids being allowed to drink Stone's ginger wine, presumably on the basis that if would be impossible for anyone to drink enough of the stuff to get drunk. In the early seventies, penny-for-the-guying was a much bigger thing than anything to do with hallowe'en, and I never heard of trick-or-treating until I was in my twenties.

AdaColeman · 28/10/2024 18:09

I never did anything linked to Halloween during my childhood, no pumpkin or turnip carving or trick or treat at all.
Occasionally we would have homemade toffee apples, but it was an autumn treat, nothing to do with Halloween.
My Mother used to tell tales of going guising during her childhood in the North East, it sounded like fun!

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