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Any Hindus on here can give me some advice?

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CurlewKate · 27/10/2024 18:52

What would be a good thing to send to DD's Hindu pil and to dd and her partner as presents for Divali? None of them are particularly religious, but celebrate the festivals. We celebrated with them last year and I baked a cake, but we need to send something this year. Any ideas?

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Ozanj · 27/10/2024 18:53

Money is the traditional gift. Multiples of 5 or 7 in a nice money envelope ideally with laxi pagla stickets inside that they can use at home.

CurlewKate · 27/10/2024 18:57

@Ozanj Even for the pils?

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FrequentlyAskedQuestion · 27/10/2024 19:06

Candles / candle holders
Sweets (of any kind) but what about some lovely glacé fruits?

No, you really wouldn’t be expected to send PILs money.

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lunar1 · 27/10/2024 19:18

Are they in the uk? We use Guptas to send Diwali sweets to family we aren't seeing. The order deadline will be close though. DH is the Hindu not me.

Lavenderfields21 · 27/10/2024 20:10

Indian sweets is the usual gift

dinmin · 27/10/2024 20:13

Fancy sweet things eg posh chocolates that they can also put out for visitors for the in laws - if you’re not Indian I would leave Indian sweets to them!
for your DD and partner it’s a bit more flex like a birthday or Christmas present although if you don’t know the partner well something like a lovely candle for the home would be nice and appropriate given it’s the festival of lights and lots of candles will be lit

Fiery30 · 27/10/2024 20:19

You can gift luxury chocolates or low sugar sweets. Even dry fruits such as pistachio and cashews, roasted or salted. Giving traditional Indian sweets is getting a bit outdated now, especially due to people having diabetes or not wanting to eat too much sweet.
If you steer clear of food, then artsy tea tray sets or tea coaster or diyas are nice gifts.

Ozanj · 27/10/2024 20:21

CurlewKate · 27/10/2024 18:57

@Ozanj Even for the pils?

Yes. It’s traditional when your sons become householders for them to give cash to you. DH gives money to mil. DBs give money to our DPs

Ginkypig · 27/10/2024 21:09

lunar1 · 27/10/2024 19:18

Are they in the uk? We use Guptas to send Diwali sweets to family we aren't seeing. The order deadline will be close though. DH is the Hindu not me.

I don’t know if I hate you a little or I’m falling in love with you.

it didn’t even occur to me that I could get my favourites delivered, iv always traveled to my local big city to treat myself every so often, I can see me spend easily a £50+ order on there!

LadyTinHat · 27/10/2024 21:13

Candles and chocolates will be fine. You can give anything sweet or nuts are also a good choice.

lunar1 · 28/10/2024 07:56

@Ginkypig they are absolutely authentic as well, taste just as good as the ones my family bring over from India.

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