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Is this weird or acceptable?

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bumblebee1987 · 27/10/2024 00:46

Growing up, my absolute favourite book was Ballet Shoes by Noel Streatfield, and the National Theatre have made a theatre show of it. Last night I had a bit of a fuck it moment (haha, I have a very boring life!) and I booked two tickets for me and hopefully someone I could drag with me 🤣

I have two children, one is an almost 12 yo boy and he'd rather stick pins in his eyes than come with me, and the other is a 5yo girl who would love it but the show is 7+ (also it's in London and she has anxiety in busy places so even if I chanced it and took her, she'd probably be too worried anyway). I don't really have any friends unfortunately, but I told my DH that I had booked it and he said he'll happily come and watch it with me.

Now I'm worried that I've done something stupid and that two adults are going to look really weird going to watch what is quite obviously a play aimed at children, without actually taking any children with us. I think I was just nostalgic because I adored the book and read it so many times, we almost named our daughter after one of the characters (and actually do call her that name as a nickname even though it's not actually her name!).

Should I cancel it? I don't want to feel like an idiot!

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Brie2001 · 27/10/2024 00:50

For all anyone knows you could be parents of someone in the show, or critics, or staff or whatever. Nobody's business. Enjoy it.

CalicoPusscat · 27/10/2024 00:53

Go and enjoy. No-one else's business.

MyCatHasStaff · 27/10/2024 00:55

Other adults will be there for the exact same reason as you. Enjoy!

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Paperthin · 27/10/2024 00:57

It’s absolutely fine and I bet many other adults will be there without children for the same reason. I hope you both enjoy it.

Fillybuster · 27/10/2024 00:57

Ha! I didn’t know about this but would totally be up for going sans dcs….happy to keep you company if your DH bails 😂 Just go, and enjoy!!

bumblebee1987 · 27/10/2024 01:03

Oh this is great news 😁 Thank you all for being so nice! I will go and enjoy it!

@Fillybuster Haha! If DH bails then I will let you know 😁 I'm always up for making a theatre friend!

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NuffSaidSam · 27/10/2024 01:07

I don't think it's 'obviously aimed at children'. The minimum age of 7+ tells you that, the fact that it's on at the National theatre and the price are other clues. It's made for adults who loved the book as children.

boysinbars · 27/10/2024 01:22

National is always a very mixed crowd; it’s great. And nobody looks twice! I took my daughter to see the witches last year which was 10+ and there were hardly any kids in our section! Enjoy. It’s a great theatre

kindlyensure · 27/10/2024 01:34

I'm going - with another adult (I am also an adult!) It will be a proper play, not a pantomime. The actors are adults. You will not be alone.

feathermucker · 27/10/2024 01:34

Sounds wonderful to go and see something that has meant so much to you. Enjoy

Sweepsthepillowclean · 27/10/2024 01:36

Don’t you dare cancel it! It is something that means so much to you! It will be magical! I hope you have an amazing time!

Grepes · 27/10/2024 01:41

Do you go to theatre and instead of watching the performance you have paid to see, watch the people around you and guess the reasons behind their decision to attend? No! Of course you don’t! So why would people do that to you? And if they did, you probably wouldn’t realise they were doing it.

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