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Cancer is such a bastard - just read the sad news about Chris Hoy’s prognosis

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DinnaeFashYerself · 19/10/2024 23:18

He and his wife Sarra are remarkable.

But life is really, truly just so unfair at times.

However, his determination to change how people perceive stage four is inspiring.

www.thetimes.com/magazines/the-sunday-times-magazine/article/chris-hoy-terminal-cancer-wife-interview-0rpw9h0l7

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Shimmyshimmycocobop · 20/10/2024 08:00

twomanyfrogsinabox · 20/10/2024 06:09

Prostate cancer is so treatable in the early stages, it's really sad it was found so late, it should be routinely tested for, but he is so young I guess it wasn't even on the radar at all. Everyone tell your Husbands and Partners to get tested, it could save their lives.

Depends on the type of prostate cancer, my dad had a very aggressive form, diagnosed at 48, died at 51. Older men get the slower more treatable cancer usually, although I do think the treatment is better now than when my dad was ill.
So sad for Chris and his family especially as his children are so young.

Emptyandsad · 20/10/2024 08:01

Destiny123 · 20/10/2024 07:16

The prob with screening prostate ca with psa is as men age nearly all have it to a degree. Something like 70% of those over 80 have ca prostate but they will die "with" the cancer, not "of" the cancer. And treatment often leaves people incontinent/erectile dysfunction/chronic pain etc so it's not as straight forward as that as you'll end up subjecting many to awful treatment for something that would never bother them in their lifetime

Tbh life in general is so awful for so many people. I've lost the ability to verbalise after an awful oncall but yeah life's hard

This is my situation. 65 years old, I had a friend who died of prostate cancer so got myself checked out. PSA was slightly high, prostate enlarged, so they monitored me for 5 years before increasing PSA levels triggered a scan and then a biopsy. Cancer was found but small and non-aggressive. I was given the option to have it treated but it was recommended to just leave it alone and keep an eye on it, which is what I'm doing. I just didn't fancy the side effects of treatment

So we'll just see what happens

northernsouldownsouth · 20/10/2024 08:01

Awful. It's an indiscriminate disease. His poor family having to deal with it all

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TheaBrandt · 20/10/2024 08:08

So cruel. Hate this.

I worked in the Ciry the friend in the office that walked away from the big money to retrain as a human rights lawyer to use her talent to help the needy for a fraction of the salary - she was the one dead at 42 from cancer. Not any of the frankly knobbish greedy men we worked with. Not that I would wish this on anyone but still why her.

WhosPink · 20/10/2024 08:12

Numbed by this. Heavily involved in cycling and everyone is devastated. With Sarra having MS this is the worst thing that could happen for his two young children.

EngineEngineNumber9 · 20/10/2024 08:12

In tears reading that. I pass one of his gold post boxes every day on my way to work. It always brings me joy. Now I’ll feel sad next time I look at it.

What an inspirational couple. Their positivity is incredible. Their strength. What a fucking awful awful situation.

widelegenes · 20/10/2024 08:51

DinnaeFashYerself · 19/10/2024 23:46

Yes, I just clicked away the subscription part and it told me I could just read it all for free

Thanks. I can read it fine on my phone, but not on my laptop. All good.

WillowTit · 20/10/2024 08:57

he is only young

Cynic17 · 20/10/2024 08:59

Chris Hoy is one of my all-time heroes. Used to love watching him in his racing days. He and Sarra are just all around good people. I actually burst into tears when I read this last night, and I hardly ever cry. I hope that they can just be left in peace to get on with their lives, as they clearly don't want any fuss.

DinnaeFashYerself · 20/10/2024 09:48

Ironic to type this, given I started the thread about it and his major interview, but I hope he and Sarra are left in peace unless they want to talk about it.

I’d hate pap shots of him looking ill, feeling vulnerable in private moments etc, unless he chooses to share those with us for his own reasons.

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ThatsNotMyTeen · 20/10/2024 10:10

I’m so upset about this. I’m really praying his high level of fitness keeps it at bay as long as possible in the hope more life prolonging treatments may be developed

Merrilydancing · 20/10/2024 11:03

He was an absolute hero of mine, seemed such a lovely man.

So shocked and saddened to hear this especially as he had looked so well at the only.

HelenInHeels · 20/10/2024 12:30

JenniferandJuniper · 19/10/2024 23:52

I heard this on the news tonight. He probably knew whilst commentating at the Olympics this year. He's so modest and an inspiration and so easy to listen to. So sad to hear this.

He looked fantastic at the Olympics and I was delighted to see him looking so good. I'm so upset about this. He's a wonderful person and it's so unfair.

MrsAvocet · 20/10/2024 13:13

I'm very sad too. Not that anyone deserves something like this, but if there is someone who surely doesn't it has to be Chris Hoy. His poor children. I hope they're all getting plenty of support.

JenniferandJuniper · 20/10/2024 13:57

HelenInHeels · 20/10/2024 12:30

He looked fantastic at the Olympics and I was delighted to see him looking so good. I'm so upset about this. He's a wonderful person and it's so unfair.

I agree he did look so good at the Olympics and I was so happy for him, I was hoping he was in remission; to think he was carrying this news, he is incredible, and now hearing about his wife, two amazing people who I hope have plenty of support to deal with their conditions and support their lovely family.

CoruscatingSlowAndGold · 20/10/2024 14:07

So sad. My DH (54) got the same diagnosis just this week. If he'd been tested earlier it would have been so treatable but because it wasn't caught before it metastasised he's lost that possibility. It never even occurred to us to get him tested.

ChunkyPanda · 20/10/2024 14:12

Another adding how sad we all are, especially my son who loved the Flying Fergus books. More proof that there are no guarantees and how unfair it all seems. So impressed with how he’s choosing to handle it. Still gutted for him though.

Over40Overdating · 20/10/2024 14:22

Shockingly sad news. Those poor children.

My cancer has thankfully been in remission for a long time but I remember the time of being in that no man’s land of treatment and not knowing if I’d still be around in a month / year and the terror it brought, very vividly. That he’s managed so much whilst knowing it is terminal is testament to his character. As he says, this treatment may get him to a time when there are more and even better options.
Stage 4 can be managed for a lot longer than the initial timelines and I hope Chris is one of those who defies the odds for a long time and lives well whilst doing it.

BuzzieLittleBee · 20/10/2024 14:29

The Olympics must have been so hard for him, as he would have known it would likely be his last (or at least the last one he works on, as barring a miracle he won't be travelling to Asia in 4 years' time). I can see why he didn't want it known before that, but knowing what he knew would have been so tough.

I'm pleased he's done everything on his own terms so far. I hope that is allowed to continue.

Iamateadrinker · 20/10/2024 16:23

I admit I shed a tear today. One of my favourite memories is being at the Olympics 2012 watching him and his teammates win gold..the atmosphere was electric
He seems one of the good guys, so inspirational to so many people. I wish him and his family well.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 20/10/2024 16:29

I'm a massive girlfan of Sir Chris. He was part of the Team GB cycling squad at the Sidney Olympics in 2000 that changed the face of British cycling (and made my lifelong hobby cool!). I remember sitting at home in the petrol strike on Sidney time.

He's done so much for his sport and his country. Not many cyclists get a velodrome named after them.

I'm absolutely gutted, all over again.

MrsAvocet · 20/10/2024 16:36

Just watching him interviewing Cameron Meyer at the track worlds now, still giving 100% to his work. How brave he is to come out to work as normal the day after making that announcement. He really is an amazing person.

Crikeyalmighty · 20/10/2024 16:42

@CoruscatingSlowAndGold I'm so very sorry to read this . We need to be getting blokes tested post 50 in the same way women have mammograms.

TheFormidableMrsC · 20/10/2024 17:22

My ex husband should have started testing for prostate cancer at 45 because it is rife in his family and his father had it. You can bet he hasn't bothered though. Not my problem any more but I don't understand anybody who doesn't take screening that is available. To add I'm a breast cancer survivor.

Paul2023 · 20/10/2024 18:14

Poor man. His wife had MS too and was diagnosed last year with it.