Last month I went to see a GP as I am totally and utterly worn down with everything in my life.
I am 51 and in the depths of perimenopause, I have some decades long health issues (including poor mental health) which have gone crazy over the last few years, I care my my mum who suffers from Alzheimer's and cancer, I work part time as a carer and on top of that I have the normal life stuff such as helping my teens navigate the world, trying to train our previously abused and very anxious rescue dog and finding time to enjoy some fragments of my life with dh. I am frazzled, feel awful every day and have had enough.
Wasn't expecting much from the consultation, we all know we can only get so much across in a 10 min GP consultation and our surgery does have a "one consultation, one problem" policy.
Anyhow, I ended up seeing a new GP and I can honestly say that I thought she was fantastic. She gave me 45 mins of her time which was unbelievable. I got upset whilst explaining everything and she was so kind and gentle and started explaining that in her opinion the NHS is pretty poor at seeing the whole picture when it comes to health issues and as a result she is very much into a holistic approach. This all sounded great until she started telling me all about a natural health clinic in our local city which she is working at and suggested to me that I go to them, she gave me the details of one of the practitioners and said I really should go see her as she will be able to help with all my health issues). I was so bamboozled by it all tbh, it was left it at that and no other help via the NHS was offered.
In my naivety (and desperation) I believed this place was somehow connected to the NHS because she was involved in it but upon further investigations it is an 'alternative' health clinic, the lady she recommended is a nutritionist and not a state register dietician. She also charges £300 for an initial consultation. Tbh, I have spent a small fortune over the years going to see people like this and am still struggling with the same chronic health problems so can't say they have been much help.
I can't help but feel this is wrong. I feel bad saying this because, as I say, this GP was absolutely lovely but I am kind of back to square one now and will have to make another appointment with a gp which will be a least 4 weeks wait.
I get that a doctor may suggested other avenues when someone is looking to treat various conditions but should NHS doctors really be actively promoting places outside of the NHS especially if they have a vested interested in the place they are apparently promoting.
I am not sure what to think tbh but I no that I am in the same position with my physical and mental health right now and nothing has changed so back to square one.