I'm going to have to be vague-because this isn't really my story- forgive me. My mid 20s son and his girlfriend have been happily living together for 4 years. They have both had mental health issues in the past, and recently something external has happened which has triggered a bit of a crisis for them both. As far as I am aware, neither is at fault. My DS is the one who talks to me most, although the GF does too, and, for want of a better expression, their stories match. By which I am pretty sure my son is not being a dick! Anyway, they have decided, and I think they're right, that they could both benefit from some therapy. They are both working, but at the beginning, low paid part co their careers. My dilemma is this. My first thought was that I would give my son some money to pay for his therapy. But now I'm wondering whether the money should be for both of them? ? Or should I give them each some money separately? Or none of the above? She knows he talks to me and I am always very clear that he should be careful what he tells me. Am I overthinking this?