As I said in another thread, my dad died on August 7th of this year.
I know this woman who's a lot older then me, who lives on the same housing estate as my parents.
She never used to speak to me as a school kid, as she never really understood my autism. She's very judgemental and critical of people. I went to a couple of art groups where she went, she also attends our community cafe.
She is very domineering, and gets upset if she can't get her own way. She also books thing like shows & events without asking me, then gets the hump when I can't go.
She now seems very jealous that I'm now spending more time with my own mum then her, my own mother! It doesn't seem to compute that family come first. I'm autistic & this is making me depressed, even asked me nosy questions when I had to see a DR when she wanted me to go to an event with her.
It's the issue about this problem she seems to find with me and my mum. Since dad died, we've become close. I think she should mind her own business, and concentrate on her own 2 daughters instead of sticking her nose into other people's affairs.
I get the feeling even they get fed up with her. She says my mum has me under her thumb which isn't true at all. I'm her carer, she's 79 and turns 80 in November.
Two other women refuse to speak to her, as she's upset them. 'Don't bother me, I have other friends'. I haven't told her some of them are distancing themselves, or are complaining.
Sorry this is a long post, thanks for reading. I need some advice.