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Where can I turn to for help? Bereavement and thyroidectomy

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TheJoyousExpert · 14/10/2024 17:28

Where can I turn to for help? Thyroidectomy, bereavement, mental health, physical health?

Hi everyone - I have posted before about my thyroid issues.

I’m looking for some advice on where I can turn to for help - I’m pretty desperate.

This year has been terrible for me and I really need help.

I was diagnosed with overactive thyroid in Feb this year but think l've had symptoms for at least maybe a year before that..... maybe even years before at times? Who knows!

I became really ill with the symptoms, pretty much bedbound. High heart rate when trying to do anything, breathless, dizzy, severe fatigued, stomach problems, nausea, severe depression and anxiety. I genuinely thought I was dying.

The anti thyroid meds didn't work for me - they affected my liver and I felt terrible on them! So had total thyroidectomy in July.

A couple of weeks before the op, I’d been staying with my parents because of how unwell I’d been feeling. Unfortunately my mum because unwell suddenly, struggling to breathe and I had to call an ambulance. She was taken to hospital.

It turned out that she was very ill. I went ahead with the surgery and my mum unfortunately passed away the next day.

Struggling to get over everything - how I have this illness and l've had to remove an organ. Struggling with the fact I have to take Levo for life, unsure if it's working properly - levels are still stabilising I think? Scared of it all and facing life without a thyroid and waiting for another illness to crop up

Struggling to come to terms with losing my mum.

I feel like something bad is happening to me everyday. My mind feels terrible. I’m not sure which is thyroid related and which is mental health. I spend a lot of my days feeling like I’m dying - it’s awful

I have had crisis team involvement but they’ve now discharged me back to my local mental health team.

my ferritin, vit D, b12 are in good range (upper ) but my folate was low (low in range) so I’ve been taking supplements (methyl folate)

Post thyroidectomy, I was really worried that I may not be converting but my thyroid test shows my t3 has recovered somewhat?

30 Sept:

TSH 0.28

T4 - 14.5 (9.1 - 17.6)

T3 - 4 (2.4 - 6)

Help and advice appreciated

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BloodyAdultDC · 14/10/2024 18:42

I take levo, have been for years. Took a while to get the meds right but back to feeling human now. In the grand scheme of things living without your thyroid isn't a biggie, just a pill every day (and free prescriptions for life).

You will find your symptoms will settle when the meds are right.

Sorry to hear about your mum. I have no advice other than the oldie that time does make things painful. And on top of everything else, it's not surprising that you feel so bad.

TheJoyousExpert · 14/10/2024 19:05

BloodyAdultDC · 14/10/2024 18:42

I take levo, have been for years. Took a while to get the meds right but back to feeling human now. In the grand scheme of things living without your thyroid isn't a biggie, just a pill every day (and free prescriptions for life).

You will find your symptoms will settle when the meds are right.

Sorry to hear about your mum. I have no advice other than the oldie that time does make things painful. And on top of everything else, it's not surprising that you feel so bad.

Thank you 😊 I really appreciate your reply. It’s good to hear from others who get along with Levo just fine. And also, it’s good to hear it’s not affected you too much.
i think perhaps I’m in my own head about it too much….. suddenly terrified I’ve lost an organ!

thank you for replying 😊

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PosiePetal · 14/10/2024 19:12

I was diagnosed with Graves Disease in my early 20’s, tried Carbimozole for a few years but perpetually relapsed. So then had radioactive iodine and have been on the same dose of Levothyroxine since (am 53 now! So many years on the same daily dose). A good friend had a total thyroidectomy at around the same time as me, she just takes a higher dose of Levo to me daily, made a complete recovery.

So sorry about your mum, it’s very tough at first and for a few years. x

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TheJoyousExpert · 14/10/2024 19:16

PosiePetal · 14/10/2024 19:12

I was diagnosed with Graves Disease in my early 20’s, tried Carbimozole for a few years but perpetually relapsed. So then had radioactive iodine and have been on the same dose of Levothyroxine since (am 53 now! So many years on the same daily dose). A good friend had a total thyroidectomy at around the same time as me, she just takes a higher dose of Levo to me daily, made a complete recovery.

So sorry about your mum, it’s very tough at first and for a few years. x

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Thank you @PosiePetal
it’s so good to hear! I knew the chances of relapsing were high & I felt so so unwell, it felt like the right choice.

Thank you for your reply ❤️

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TheJoyousExpert · 15/10/2024 08:09

Hopeful bump

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BCBird · 15/10/2024 08:13

I don't know anything about thyroid, but wanted to comment on bereavement. Grief is not something you get over, it's something you learn to live alongside. Don't feel you have to behave in a particular way. Just be. Warmest wishes OP

TheJoyousExpert · 20/10/2024 15:51

Thank you @BCBird 😊

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