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Can I get a baby loss certificate for a termination?

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aterriblething · 09/10/2024 18:44

I have seen these are available but it stated TFMR? Can I get a certificate if it was for other reasons ? It’s very complicated but was a loss and I continue to grieve

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Alltheyearround · 09/10/2024 20:55

I had a similar situation OP. Sending you hugs. I have thought about counselling too. It was many years ago but I always carry that little lost one with me. Precious few people acknowledged the grief.

Sailawaygirl · 09/10/2024 20:58

Sending a hug! I had a secret termination when I was a teenager and although it probably was the right thing to do and was my choice ( although it was also the only option) I have had a sense of loss and sadness for a long time. I didn't even get to see the scan ( which does make sense as it would be traumatic). I was also thinking about a certificate. All I had was the discharge sheet.
Be kind to yourself xx

HaddyAbrams · 09/10/2024 20:58

Hugs OP and anyone else who's been in a similar position. I have too. I've blocked it so much I don't even know what year it was so couldn't get a certificate. But it's nice to know I could.

aterriblething · 09/10/2024 21:05

I’m sorry to everyone else who has been through a loss Flowers thankyou for being so kind ❤️

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SaltedPotato · 09/10/2024 21:19

I've just ordered my 5 certificates.. wasn't bothered about them before but having a loss at the moment it's all so fresh so decided to order them.
They only need minimal details.

teampacey · 10/10/2024 08:11

With regards to your scan photo there are some people who do beautiful watercolours of scan photos. If you look at em_baby art on Instagram she might be able to help.

Sending much love and so glad you were able to apply for a certificate.

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