RIP little Isabella (TW)

[TheTwirlyPoos]

Another horrendous case of a toddler being abused and killed at the hands of her mother's boyfriend whilst her 'mother' did nothing. The details are horrendous.

RIP little girl. You deserved so very much more

Well said. Couldn't agree more

Awful and similar but I certainly haven't with my DC.

SOME abused people abuse others.

My childhood was full of abuse. I've never once hurt my children.

I am sorry for your experience but please don't perpetuate the shite that abuser have to abuse, do abuse, etc they can't give love as never had it.

I never had love or care for more than a few hours. Yet I love my children utterly.

edited as I missed an important part of your post. Apologies. I'm sad you didn't feel you could have your own children.

Posters on here do it too.

There are threads on this site daily about women who are prioritising men over their children.

Until girls are brain washed at school and during teenage years that lads/men like this are pond scum, there is no hope.

I didn't say that all abused children go on to abuse though. Did I.

I said that a lot of the people you see in the news who are cold, cruel, sadistic and utterly shocking to children

Probably had a similar childhood themselves.

This does not mean that all abused children go on to abuse children, or the ones that do it are excused because they had a bad childhood.

But some of the people who've had the shit kicked out of them as children, can get very messed up themselves as adults.

RiP Isabella. It's a terribly sad case.

It’s not always true I was severely abused and I have dc and every single thing I do or say is from a place of love and kindness and the constant feeling of never ever having my precious dc feeling hurt or scared in any way

I read this and felt so upset, and then looking at thr photos of that sweet, beautiful little girl just broke my heart. I've stayed at the Wild Duck Holiday Park where they were, and it's a great place for little ones like her - I truly hope she had the chance to be able to do the things that innocent beautiful toddlers should do. But, of course, instead of being spoilt on holiday, she was left alone 😢💔 I can't bear to read the details, that poor sweet baby 😢

Reading the article actually made me cry. I can't bear to think what those wicked people did to her.😢

I think sometimes there's a genetic predisposition to being a nasty parent. You don't necessarily inherit it though. My DM was nasty and fairly abusive, as was hers, and apparently hers in turn. I'm not. The gene has died out, I sincerely hope. It can be hard to separate nature from nurture - does an abused child go on to become an abusive parent because of what they went through, or because of their inherited character traits? Probably a bit of both.

Poor little Isabella. And where was her biological dad in all this?

They put a yellow carrier bag of purchases on top of her little lifeless body in the pushchair. Death penalty is too good for them.

3 weeks this is what is incredulous must of started the abuse from day one just too too too awful

The cruelty and callousness is beyond belief. The mother and boyfriend don’t deserve to be alive. They deserve the death penalty.
RIP Isabella

Because society judges single mums.
Because society raises girls to get married.
Because society gives extra status to married women.
Because society views single women as having a problem.
Because society views being in a relationship as the norm and anything outside of the norm is weird.
Because single mums are often in a vulnerable position and people are less willing to help because they see them as having done something wrong, which opens them up to abuse.

Don't get me wrong, these two people are sick in the head and absolute bustards. I hope they never get out of prison. But please don't do the "why do single mums" thing because we can't be surprised when it's portrayed as a life goal and anyone not achieving that goal is a failure.

That poor baby!

if authorities were involved why wasn’t she removed?

this hits too close to home, I once knew of a little toddler being beaten black and blue by the ‘dad’ mum also did nothing. I ended up calling the police and SS. They literally did nothing. Mum was meant to separate from the dad, but went and had another baby with him.

Par for the course.
It really is just so depressing.

Tbf I did say single parents rather than single mums. It applies to both genders though. People seem to move at the speed of light. It is scary.

So many stupid women jumping into moving new boyfriends in when they have a young child. Not booting them out at the first sign of red flags and standing by while their child gets killed. Horrific.

Oh that poor sweet child.
She looks so 'happy' in one of those pictures.

The brute who did this looks just like the type one would expect.

Expect in jail they will be protected.

Other inmates don't like child abusers/killers.

I had to Google this.
Poor little sweet baby. How can people be so cruel.
I hope they get life. Evil people.

I’ll never forget the utterly blasé attitude of the health visiting team who never bothered to turn up to check the little girl, just did it on the phone. She was traumatised and there was a question of sexual abuse and the mother just let it happen and you know what so did social services, the police and HV.

breaks my heart thinking of them.

i was abused too and I can see the damage in myself, the traits, inability to manage my feelings and the gut reaction to lash out. But that is something I will fight and continue to work on for the rest of my life. But this, here, the cruelty inflicted on poor Isabelle, I can’t fathom that, how little humanity someone must have.

I hope she’s at peace now

RIP little Isabella. My heart breaks for her, her family (bar the monster that called herself her mother) and the poor jury who now have to listen to this utterly heartbreaking case. No sentence will really be justice. A slow painful death is what both defendants deserve.

I hope both of them go to prison for a very long time, preferably for the rest of their natural lives but failing that at least until they are too old to have any more children. May every day of their sentences be a living hell for them.

she had canabis and cocaine in her bloodsystem. What is wrong with some people??? How can a mother sit back and watch this happen for the sake of a man? Honestly some people will make excuses of how this is a byproduct of patriarchal society, but i dont believe this is. Its selfish people who care for nothing but what they want, not even their own child