So pissed off today!

[Imbluedalale]

Is anybody else having a bad day?

Not so much today which makes a pleasant change from the last few weeks which has seen arsedness levels at an all time low for a variety of reasons. However...I hear you. Anything you want to offload? Here with tea and understanding...

Teetering on the edge. But I’m trying to look at my whole life see 1) where it makes sense to be annoyed and frustrated and realised I can change it but I’m not
ready 2) I’m two weeks before my period so everyone annoys me 3) it’s a sign I’m not looking after myself and what I need

My period has started and my bank account has been hacked.

But I’ve had a day off today (TOIL) and I’ve made a pie.

So it’s 50/50.

Yeah I'm with you. Today hasn't been great!

Sat in hospital waiting for a gastroscopy. Definatly not a good day.

Today has been ok which has been surprising - Friday I felt so irritated and in a huff (work related). Usually it’s the other way round and I feel moody on a Monday so not sure what’s happened!!

Yes! Had a really frustrating dog walk because my dog just wanted to go home, got a huge pile of really fiddly work to do, and I fell over in the kitchen earlier like an absolute prat and whacked my hip and elbow, and there was nobody here to give me any sympathy.

Yes and I’ve just thrown my computer keyboard across the room is a fit of rage then sobbed for a while. Luckily I’m wfh so no one saw me go a bit mental. My mum is ill and has dementia so she’s in hospital but doesn’t understand and keeps crying, my best friend has stage 4 cancer and just shouted at me for not being there for her despite telling her my mum needs me and I’m doing 70 miles of driving everyday to see her and working full time and my husband has to go for tests for pre-cancerous cells that were found….it just feels like I’m being kicked and pulled. This is also my most stressful time of year at work. I just want to curl in a ball and hide!

Yeah, took my car to the car wash, thoroughly enjoyed giving it a good, soapy wash. Drove home to find neighbour across the road got someone doing some pointing, cue lots of dust from the grinding. Sigh. Yesterday put my washing out and new neighbour started burning all the trees etc from their back garden. Huh.

Awww sorry to hear you’ve had a rough few weeks . Glad to hear your day today is ok.
I just feel so very pissed off . Literally everything in my life has gone to pot . Reasons I’m pissed off today are due to be homeless tomorrow, ex partner who I’ve only just split up with stayed in hotel last night with his new gf and he’s just booked a double room in front of me for tonight (he never booked a hotel stay for us when we was together ) and him and his mum ate a full box of Ferraro rocher that my sister had just bought me yesterday .

I think I am allowed to feel annoyed and frustrated everything is out of my control .
I hate periods very glad I’m not due on right now
How do you normally look after yourself? For me right now looking after myself is brushing my hair and teeth and some days I can’t even do that gross I know

Awww so sorry to hear about your bank being hacked . Have you spoken to the bank? I used to work at Lloyd’s bank for 15 years

@BashfulClam oh love you are really going through it. Here if you need to rant/scream/ let it out. 🫂💐♥️🙏

What’s wrong Beezknees?

Oh dear , sorry to hear that. I had hospital appointment myself this morning . Had to get an ambulance there and back as I can’t walk at the moment .

Sorry to hear you’ve had work problems . Glad your day is better today

Awww you poor thing . Hope it wasn’t too painful . Sending you a virtual hug with sympathy

Awww BashfulClam.
Sorry to hear about your mum and best friend . I too have cancer so I know how it feels . Never thought I’d say that at 40 I’d be jobless , homeless, paralysed (from cancer treatment) and separated from partner of 15 years . Life really is crap at the moment .

Oh no so frustrating. Nothing worse when you’ve put clean washing out and it either rains or somebody starts burning something!

Thank you . Just feel so very unloved and worthless and everything is out of control . Spending a fortune on taxis (spent £150) last week as I can’t walk or drive . Feel like I’m in a game of dodgeball and keep getting hit . When will it end?

I’m so sorry, this is the only place I can make it about me. I can’t lose my husband I’d end myself.

Yeah today has been such a "meh" day.
I'm sad/annoyed about a mix of things but equally no answers/can be bothered to talk about it.

My poor computer but I was trying to do something and I just couldn’t make it work so pulled out the wire screamed ‘C**T at it!’ Then I threw it across the room and just sobbed my heart out. My husband is the nicest person, he’s a human Golden retriever. Losing him would be the end for me and I wouldn’t be far behind him. We need new tests next week to see how bad the cells are and where they are. Obviously I’ve Dr Googled too which hasn’t helped (although my brother did remind me google continually tells him he has cervical cancer) it’s just everything al once!!!

@Imbluedalale
I think you are perfectly entitled to be thoroughly pissed off given everything you are dealing with.
Your ex sounds like a right piece of work and hopefully, with time, you will be glad to have him out of your life. Doesn't make his appalling behaviour any better in the short term but you are better than that and deserve someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
I hope you get sorted re your housing situation. That must be a worry. And then buy yourself some Ferrero Rocher all of your own and enjoy every single one of them. Hang in there....

Don’t be sorry . You’ve nothing to be sorry for . I’m sorry to hear about your husband too. Is he going through the nhs for his tests?