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Day/night away by myself

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fluckityfluckfluck · 06/10/2024 08:11

Next Saturday is a significant anniversary for me and I always celebrate it. In the past I've had parties, gone on spa days with friends, and I have done a city break alone before too.

I have nothing planned this time. I'm feeling very reflective, and don't want a party vibe. I'm pretty sure I'd rather be alone than invite anyone along. I live in the north west England. Travel options limited as need to be back Sunday evening. Could travel Friday evening at a push.

What would you do? I need to book/decide or I won't cope well on the day

Thanks in advance for any suggestions

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notacooldad · 06/10/2024 08:14

Would you go to a spa day alone?
I have and loved it.
What are your hobbies? Do you like walking. Would a day in the mountains appeal. I'm nor too far from the lake district so enjoy solitary days a d theres loads of great hotels with spa and beauty facilities. Are you a city girl? Art galleries and a posh lunch a d a great hotel?

Whatever you decide, I hope the day goes well for you.

fluckityfluckfluck · 06/10/2024 08:18

I do a lot of hiking, always with groups. I don't think I'd like that alone unless I stayed very local and that doesn't feel special enough. I was contemplating a spa day alone - I love a good book and wouldn't feel self conscious alone, I'm used to travelling solo. City break does appeal, I do like theatre - I guess I could check out what's on in cities or even venture to London

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fluckityfluckfluck · 06/10/2024 08:18

And thank you for the reply and the well wishes Flowers

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bergamotorange · 06/10/2024 08:21

What sort of thing appeals? Loads of good options in the NW as you have coast, the lakes, cities and towns/villages.

I'd pick a something to do - so a gallery or property to visit, or go to theatre, or to a beauty spot.

Suggestions from me: Windermere, RHS Bridgewater, an art exhibition in Manchester or Liverpool.

BloominNora · 06/10/2024 08:30

Depending on your budget I'd book a really nice spa hotel in London - there are some decent reasonably priced ones around Canary Wharf.

That way you have options depending on how you are feeling - spa / show / shopping / walking around for the sites / the museums

Book a cheap direct return on Avanti west coast mainline and use Seatfrog to upgrade to first class!

Tomorrowisyesterday · 06/10/2024 08:35

Is there a theatre show somewhere you would enjoy?

fluckityfluckfluck · 06/10/2024 08:47

It's almost as though there's so many options I can't make a decision

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Tomorrowisyesterday · 06/10/2024 08:55

But you're running out of time - why not list your options as a way of organising your thoughts? Is cost an issue?

fluckityfluckfluck · 06/10/2024 09:10

Ok I'm thinking Scotland - perhaps Edinburgh. I've been twice but never walked up Arthur's seat. And it's a friendly place

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Tomorrowisyesterday · 06/10/2024 16:59

I live nearby so I'm going to agree! Weather not great though, but you could have a lovely stay in a city centre hotel.

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