Sorry in advance if none of this makes sense- just needed somewhere to write it down, going round in circles if husbands way of talking to me is “normal” I think I’m just so exhausted at the moment I can’t think straight, examples will be, - if I talk about a bad night I’ve had other toddler and I’m toddler he will respond with “well it’s been like this for years nothings going to change”
he constantly gives me -household jobs or have a go if I haven’t done something straight away? (For context I do 99% of the housework )
my eldest son can be hard work has autism and is homeschooled- my husband constantly saying he needs to get off his arse get out on his bike like he used to do in the day, every other child is out the house all day, (which I get but it isn’t our set up at the moment?)
one Minutes hes saying I need to get in the real world and it can’t be positive all the time the next he’s saying I’m miserable why does he have to come to this and the kids?
He will antagonise my son, I see it - him trying to wind him up but then my son reacts (I go on to be neutral but defend son as husband started with the wind up husband then gets so angry that I haven’t defended him and it’s always him?
I’m drowning a bit in thoughts, so if there is anyone to even talk or hear your thoughts I would be grateful ☺️