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The casual things that wealthy people take for granted

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KaleQueen · 04/10/2024 21:31

Inspired by a thread that’s gone totally off topic….where someone suggested a £400 watch was cheap.

What’s the most casual (even accidental) brag you’ve ever heard a wealthy person say?

I can start as I know someone who celebrated a big birthday recently and is an absolutely lovely person but during their party (in the wonderful house) they said “oh! Here comes the string quartet. I had completely forgotten about them!”

^www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5174898-to-feel-slightly-suspicious-of-dp?page=35&reply=138771616^

OP posts:
Lovetosleep1 · 05/10/2024 12:46

My sister has the heating on full while wondering around the house in a vest top in winter and her kids leave every light on in their massive house and she doesn't care. She's very lovely and works incredibly hard but just never needs to worry about bills.

Fevertreelover · 05/10/2024 12:48

Disappearedwife · 04/10/2024 21:34

Im not particularly wealthy but a £400 watch IS cheap.

An expensive watch is well into the thousands (£3k+). £400 is probably just a metal/plastic watch.

Next thing I’m going to hear is that £50 is an expensive hand bag 😂😂😂

Edited

£k is cheap. Her is my favourite watch of the moment and its 2.6m😱

https://www.patek.com/en/collection/grand-complications/5260-1455R-001

Patek Philippe | Aquanaut Luce « Rainbow » Minute Repeater Haute Joaillerie ref. 5260/1455R-001

A rainbow of multicolored sapphires and diamonds for the first Aquanaut Luce minute repeater

https://www.patek.com/en/collection/grand-complications/5260-1455R-001

Purplestorm83 · 05/10/2024 12:49

Disappearedwife · 04/10/2024 21:34

Im not particularly wealthy but a £400 watch IS cheap.

An expensive watch is well into the thousands (£3k+). £400 is probably just a metal/plastic watch.

Next thing I’m going to hear is that £50 is an expensive hand bag 😂😂😂

Edited

Nope, £7.50 is a cheap watch. That’s what I paid for the watch I had to buy for work, it works fine.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/10/2024 12:51

Fevertreelover · 05/10/2024 12:48

£k is cheap. Her is my favourite watch of the moment and its 2.6m😱

https://www.patek.com/en/collection/grand-complications/5260-1455R-001

That’s pretty. I wonder how much it costs to get the battery replaced.

savvy7 · 05/10/2024 12:52

Ramblomatic · 05/10/2024 12:29

£400 is cheap for a watch. All you'll get for less than that are digital or quartz movements, or a very, very poor automatic.

£3k is mid-range.

A good watch (standard Rolex, Hublot) you're not getting much change from £15k. Add another 10-15k for a decent Rolex or a Patek. Rolex particularly are good investments though.

Realistically you're looking at at least 5-600 for a 'good' watch.

😂😂😂

PumaKinPie · 05/10/2024 12:53

namechange678

They all got wealthy very quickly through marriage and inheritance. Rapid increase in spending power seems to have brought this out in them.

I can't imagine gloating (or complaining) about an inheritance. I'd rather never get it and keep my family here forever.

I have distanced myself from these people now. They aren't the friends I first met. Money does strange things to people.

KaleQueen · 05/10/2024 12:54

savvy7 · 05/10/2024 12:52

😂😂😂

I am so pleased you’ve cleared this up.

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Nickisli1 · 05/10/2024 12:54

Having family / friends with holiday homes in glam locations that are available to stay in for free!

Disturbtheuniverse · 05/10/2024 12:56

FussyFusspott · 04/10/2024 21:41

A colleague of mine buys expensive clothes online and if she doesn't like them she actually bins them as it's too much hassle to return or take to a charity shop.

She sounds like a horrible person too!

KaleQueen · 05/10/2024 12:56

I’ve just remembered my (wealthy) cousin once complaining as her husband was ‘cutting down the family budget’ due to cost of living crisis and fuel hikes so was no longer allowing her to heat the indoor pool. She was genuinely upset.
Same husband also ‘sold one of his pubs’ to free up some cash…:

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Flossiecotton · 05/10/2024 12:56

With regard to the watch, it is all relative. When my children were tiny we booked a caravan holiday on the coast. The first day my sandal broke and the only way to repair it was with celotape . There was no money for replacements and I struggled to get around for the rest of the holiday.

Now I take for granted that I can replace anything immediately.

BlackShuck3 · 05/10/2024 13:00

Clocloxx · 05/10/2024 12:19

I'd love to be able to eat out everyday or get a take away daily sick to death of cooking in my tiny kitchen

I hate it if I have to eat out.
For me nothing beats my proper home cooked healthy food, and the cost of one meal eating out is typically enough for me to eat for a week if I'm cooking for myself.

MangoRose · 05/10/2024 13:00

Disappearedwife · 04/10/2024 22:03

If you think £400 is an expensive watch I’d love to know what you think a £40,000 watch is??
Surely people are aware of the price scale of things available to buy.

eg say you think a £400 car is expensive? Are you unaware that Lamborghinis exist?

also it would be pointless putting a £400 watch on your house insurance as it would probably end up costing you more insurance than simply replacing the watch. So not cost effective…

Edited

There is a difference between it being an expensive watch and being a cheap watch. £400 is not cheap for a watch at all, £20 is. £40000 for a watch is out of most people's range.

A £40k car is quite expensive, doesn't make it cheap just because there are cars available for hundreds of thousands.

StMarieforme · 05/10/2024 13:01

Disappearedwife · 04/10/2024 21:34

Im not particularly wealthy but a £400 watch IS cheap.

An expensive watch is well into the thousands (£3k+). £400 is probably just a metal/plastic watch.

Next thing I’m going to hear is that £50 is an expensive hand bag 😂😂😂

Edited

I would never pay £50 for a handbag. Far too expensive. But I wouldn't laugh at someone who does. It's just not very nice.

NetZeroZealot · 05/10/2024 13:04

itwasnevermine · 05/10/2024 12:16

@NetZeroZealot very few, because im on minimum wage. Just realise that you do have privileges

Of course I realise this and already clearly stated it in some of my previous posts on this thread.
My DC are on minimum wage / zero hours contracts, and I understand how lucky I am to be able to afford many things that others cannot.

JudgeJ · 05/10/2024 13:05

prescribingmum · 04/10/2024 22:00

Completely agree

But I do think our perception and value has a part to play. A pp talked about replacing white goods without worry - we fit into this boat but I wouldn’t call us wealthy, we do have enough savings to replace a broken washing machine without worrying. I would consider booking theatre trips without checking price of seats or going to fancy restaurants and ordering what appeals without thinking about cost

I think I made a booboo recently. I had my washing machine repaired, it cost about £240 and an acquaintance told me I was daft, paying so much, I could have bought a new one for that! My reply was that I only buy Miele white goods, not cheap ones, his arrogance at telling the 'little old widow woman' that she was daft played a part so maybe it wasn't that bad a comment!

Tootsurly · 05/10/2024 13:08

sorrythetruthhurts · 05/10/2024 12:04

on the plus side, if you have another 3 you've got your own string quartet.

and don't have to hire one at £1k a time, which is apparently cheap and something everyone does 😂

Well to be fair you'd only need two, but you'd need a tiny viola and a tiny cello as well.

JudgeJ · 05/10/2024 13:11

Namechanged1974 · 04/10/2024 22:26

A watch costing £4k in Argos or £40k from Rolex still tells the same time as a 4 quid one from the market.
Vulgar as fuck to think expensive watches are any different to that!

My $10 'Rolex' is still going strong, 10 years after the man in Tijuana said it had a lifetime guarantee!

NetZeroZealot · 05/10/2024 13:13

i have a friend who shops at Aldi & Lidl and thinks I’m wildly extravagant for going to Waitrose & ( another upmarket food place not linking) . They eat Domino’s & Chinese takeaway at least once a week and go on long - haul holidays & cruises regularly .
we could never afford that (nor would we want to). The last time I flew long haul was 6 years ago for a family wedding.

Tengreenbottles2 · 05/10/2024 13:15

Tootsurly · 04/10/2024 21:51

A friend of a friend talking in passing about how he was thinking of buying an island.

Thought you meant a kitchen island for a minute there...

Frequency · 05/10/2024 13:20

Fevertreelover · 05/10/2024 12:48

£k is cheap. Her is my favourite watch of the moment and its 2.6m😱

https://www.patek.com/en/collection/grand-complications/5260-1455R-001

It's like the Lelli Kelly of watches. I'm sorry but someone would have to pay me £2.4 million if they wanted me to wear that. I'm quite happy sticking with my Samsung Galaxy watch. I wouldn't mind upgrading it to a newer version but I'll wait until the price of them secondhand comes down. I don't like to buy new, it's pointless when you can get something that looks new for a fraction of the price.

JudgeJ · 05/10/2024 13:24

she's gone into town to buy her veg from the market and come back home to tell my father they are going on a 5 holiday

We did that once, we hadn't had a holiday, went to Asda and walking past a travel agent saw a holiday we then booked.
OH once went out for the Sunday paper and when he came back I told him that we were off to Greece on Tuesday, back in the days of Teletext and you could get a very unfancy week in Greece for about £125.
To be clear, we were both teaching full time and could luckily manage these things.

MLMsuperfan · 05/10/2024 13:28

The funny thing is a £50 Tesco smartphone will do as accurate a job of telling the time than the most expensive Rolex. It will automatically adjust to daylight savings or timezone changes too.

JudgeJ · 05/10/2024 13:29

sorrythetruthhurts · 05/10/2024 11:52

It's dear for what you get, you'd need a large wheelbarrow to transport £17 worth of veg from your local market stalls (not the bougie farmer's market types, the proper old school ones where they want to offload in bulk to you).

Edited

You get even more at about 4.30 on Saturday afternoon, my parents used to go into town after the football match, getting there about 5pm and they would stock up for the week.

RampantIvy · 05/10/2024 13:36

NetZeroZealot · 05/10/2024 11:58

Agree with this. I can remember when a coffee from a cafe felt like an unaffordable luxury. But I’ve now been working for 40 years and, yes, I am privileged enough to not worry about that and buy expensive vegetables ( but no meat or takeaways) because I choose to.

I would pretty much describe myself in this category. We aren't wealthy, but we are comfortable because we are old.

Our income is rather modest, but we don't have high outgoings. We bought our first house in 1980, so the mortgage was paid off years ago and don't have expensive habits or hobbies.