I’ve been with my partner for over 10 years we have 3 children 11,12,13. It hasn’t always been plain sailing, we have had plenty of downs and lots of ups. However i feel I am at the end of this “relationship” and I am sick of being controlled. (Please don’t make me feel worse than I already do for staying so long) when we are good it’s great. But when it’s bad, it’s horrific. Silly things like not ironing his clothes causes uproar, doing the wrong washing of clothes, going out with my friends always leads to constant texts/phone calls making me feel bad for not being at home with our children and him. If I do want a night out it’s “get the kids minded then” even tho he isn’t going anywhere or doing anything. The names I am called I won’t even put on here but now my children are older I want out. I don’t want this no more I am so unhappy possibly even depressed I don’t want this effecting my children no more. But I know he won’t just up and leave what do I do 😭 please help and please if you’ve come just to judge I already know it’s my fault for staying so please don’t tell me. I just need help.