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Baby keeps having accidents

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TidyPearlViewer · 02/10/2024 02:17

Hi all,

My beautiful baby is 7 months and gorgeous. I’ve recently been finding, over the past couple of weeks there have been a series of accidents. I feel awful and ashamed and guilt ridden.

she is fine and not hurt but it’s very silly stuff, due to carelessness such as rolling off the bed, bumping her head etc.

has anyone else had this experience? I know I just need to take better care but I honestly feel like I’m doing my best but it suddenly happens very quickly.

I know that I am tired and stressed. I had a traumatic childhood and had PTSD. When the baby was first born I felt much calmer and able to do more things but since she’s got older have been suffering from intrusive thoughts and panic attacks which I think are making me distracted.

The doctor said forgetfulness etc can be due to a hormone dip. Any tips? I feel that maybe alcohol, screens etc should be banned for a month to get me on track. Not that I’m drinking a lot or on the phone all the time btw but I just mean the odd glass of wine and so on…

thanks in advance and please don’t think I’m useless! I feel awful she’s had some scrapes recently and I swear it’s just when I turn around for 2 minutes to try and feed the dog or go to the bathroom.

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TidyPearlViewer · 02/10/2024 08:19

Thank you. As I said, of course it is my responsibility. Sorry if the wording was wrong. Having PTSD and suffering from instructive thoughts and OCD is very debilitating. These practical suggestions are very helpful. Thank you

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Gunpowder · 03/10/2024 06:45

Wow, some of these responses are judgy. When we are exhausted and struggling we do sometimes make mistakes. I would hope PPs would be kinder to a new mum struggling in real life that you have been on this thread. OP has already stated she feels guilt ridden. She has accepted responsibility and has sought help both in IRL and here. Practical suggestions and reassurance is helpful, putting the boot in is unkind and unecessary.

Maybe go back to the GP, OP? And yes we have to protect babies but they are also resilient. Your DD is ok. You can let what’s happened inform future strategies, but please don’t let this make you feel like a bad mum. These types of things happened to my DC and the DC of many of my friends. We learned along the way!

edited for typo

TidyPearlViewer · 03/10/2024 16:27

Thank you!! That is so nice to hear. It is quite hard but def trying my best and navigating as best I can. Xx

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