I lefty a DV relationship in June and cut off contact between my son and his dad in August and he's not seen him since. My abuser basically ripped me a new one and told me how he had all sorts of evidence on me that would "get my kids taken off me" it isn't true as I am not a horrible person drinker or drug user and what he said he had "on me" he actually couldn't do anything with as I spoke to woman's aid and I have told them everything. What's annoying is. He doesn't see he is abusive. He really thinks we did tit for tat on the relationship. He doesn't see he abused me sexually physically mentallyNOTHING. He says he gossips with me with his teenage kids and his son's GF. He is the ripe age of 44.
He's made me feel so crap and says if I keep my son away from him then it will only negatively affect my son. Not true.
Him and his kids are toxic and would pour toxicity into my sons ear not to mention my ex was abusing me infront of my son including physically when I was holding my newborn son. He's a monster. With that being said told me I. Was nothing and less and I still listen and get put down about it:'(