My husband was chorister in a cathedral choir in the 1960's. He's recently disclosed to me that he was abused by the headmaster. This all came out at a recent reunion were we discovered that the perpetrator had been exposed by the parish that he was moved on to after the Cathedral authorities discovered his abuse. Yes - they just moved him on so that he could continue abusing (!) However, at that reunion a couple of weeks ago, the Cathedral authorities had a safeguarding officer available to talk to those who had suffered. My DH has since told me that he spoke to her' & has been offered counselling which is good & I am encouraging him to take up. It's since transpired that my DH reported this 20 years ago-spoke to an official from the Cathedral, asked to remain anonymous, but asked them to inform the police - apparently he is recorded as 'Angulation Y'. But they didn't. Now my DH is angry & has gone to the Press with 3 motivations: 1/ to tell his story, 2/ to let others know they aren't alone & help available & 3/ to make sure it never happens again. I've made it clear that I'm by his side & support him in whatever he wants to do. But I would appreciate some input from others in how I can help him. He's got a difficult call to make this evening to tell his daughter - who, no doubt will tell her brothers & that will explain why he was such a strict father. advise please as I feel out of my depth.