Do I ask for the money?

[pancakesallday]

During the summer the kids and I set up a stall outside our house. We sold a few toys and baby bits, made a tenner, all good.

As we were packing up, a lady leaving our neighbours' house said she wanted an item but didn't have any cash on her. It was £5. I said she could drop the money later.

You guessed it, she didn't come back. The kids have been asking. Do I:

A) ask the neighbours if they can send her a friendly reminder
B) tell the kids she's dropped the money and cover it myself
C) any other ideas?

This is not about the money, it's more about the kids. Thank you.

I'd let it go, she probably forgot and it would seem petty. Maybe it's a good learning moment for understanding bad debts!

Was the money from the sale supposed to be for the children? If so, I'd be tempted to do B. I wouldn't want to create a big drama over a £5. If I ever saw that person around again I might mention in passing. But I hat confrontation so might not be the best person to take advice from ... Pick your battles.

It is really annoying and disrespectful of her btw. I'm guessing you won't be so trusting next time.

If this was in the summer (and it's now October) then I wouldn't be chasing anyone for anything - and definitely not involving the neighbour as it isn't their responsibility - this lady probably forgot which is unfortunate.

If the kids are now short from the sale of their possessions then I would cover it myself because I was the one to say to the lady that she could pay later - i.e. it was my decision, not the kids' decision.

I'd give the kids a fiver.

Just give the kids the money…I know it’s a little frustrating but it seems the best way to deal with least chance of conflict. That’s what I would do if I was in your position.

@ANightingaleSang yes the money is going towards new stuff for the kids.