What do you do for your birthday if you don't want to get drunk?

[SarahReeves]

My 39th birthday is coming up next month and I don't have anything planned. Every year for my birthday I play some sort of party or activity that includes getting drunk and I don't want to do that anymore. But I'm not sure what eles to do?

I have a meal out with family and friends, whoever wants to drink with their meal can but it's not for me.

Stuff myself stupid on smoked salmon, cream cheese and other yummy nibbles.

You seriously have a party for your birthday every year?? You're 39 not 9.

I do what I do every other day of the year with the addition of opening a few cards and if I'm lucky presents.

She said party or activity. It's not a bad or strange thing to celebrate your birthday if you want to so.