I feel like my ex is acting a bit odd lately. But maybe I'm over thinking.
So we have 2 children together. One is 8 and the other 9. When I was pregnant with the 9 year old . He decided he did not want to know. Baby was born. I let him know. He still was not interested so I registered baby on my own . Meaning he has my last name.
He then decided he wanted to know. We got back together. And got pregnant. This time round it was all ok. We registered babys name together and we used both sir names.
So now we have child 1 with the sir name jones and then child child 2 with the sir name smith-jones . ( example names)
The ex ( smith ) now keeps telling older DS YOUR A SMITH your meant to have daddy's name. Using over the top masculine puff your chest our body language. He's telling me older ds is asking questions why don't he have the same sir name. Older Ds has autism and it would not enter his head to bring it up.
I feel like he's putting his own stuff on to DS.
Then he's told the kids . We broke up because of my teen ds. Which is not true at all . And he shouldn't be even mentioning it to them anyway.
Do I just ignore him. But reassure the kids ?