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Hate my new job

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Royalshyness · 25/09/2024 00:18

(Teacher) nicer school to be fair. I’ve responsibility (unpaid). Head of Dept isn’t great. Basically I’ve walked into a shit show (too tired to write more eloquently)

problem is .. I live in a rural area. This job pays well 10 mins from my home. How do you get yourself to switch off in the evenings and grow elephant skin to not care 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

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NewtonsCradle · 25/09/2024 00:25

A 10 minute commute is worth keeping, and it's still the beginning of the academic year so I'd probably have a glass of wine and wait for it all to become routine.

Royalshyness · 25/09/2024 00:53

Yeah it might fall into place. I’m in a very tough part of the school (don’t want to out myself) but the young students are lovely, just lack of physical resources and Human Resources. I will try and tough it out, thanks for listening to me 💐

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poppyzbrite4 · 25/09/2024 00:54

Make sure you're in a union.

Royalshyness · 25/09/2024 07:06

I might actually contact my union today

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Shinyandnew1 · 25/09/2024 07:09

Tbf I think teaching is a shit show wherever you are at the moment-ridiculous expectations, no people and no budget. I don’t know many teachers who aren’t plotting at exit strategy :(

parrotonmyshoulder · 25/09/2024 07:13

It might be that it’s a terrible job/ place to work, but might also be the settling in and finding your feet phase. Try and stick it out for a bit and don’t make big decisions until you’re feeling calm and logical.
I tend to like workplaces better when I’ve met one or two people (colleagues, not children) genuinely like, so that I’m happy to see them and feel I have someone to turn to. Sometimes this takes a while.
Are there any bits you like? You say the YP are great. That’s a bonus.
And the ten minute commute (I have this) is worth its weight in gold so long as you don’t make up the time with extra work.

LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 25/09/2024 08:58

If you like the school generally then I would hang fire until after Christmas to give you time to settle in. A HOD isn't necessarily there forever. I had a number of them over my teaching career and only two that were decent.

Royalshyness · 25/09/2024 11:35

Thank you. I am in the school two months in this job but I did another role last year in the school. I find the school ok in that I like the students (rural and good natured) but the role I am in is collaborative and other teachers are set in the dark ages. Headteacher is good but naive to the issues (I am at risk of getting hurt as I am in a tough part of the school - don’t want to out myself but you probably can guess)

up until now school was fee paying, grammar - now comprehensive public & the culture shift isn’t happening 🥹

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