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I just want the anxiety to stop

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Wrappy · 18/09/2024 20:06

Hi everyone. So I suffer with emetophobia (fear of vomiting) whether it be other people or myself. I’ve had it for as long as I can remember. I’ve tried CBT which I felt worked a little whilst I was having it but unfortunately wasn’t long lasting. I’m also on Sertraline which I would say has improved my anxiety overall but not fully.

We have had a bug in our house this past week. First DS then me. Currently waiting for others to get it🙄 DH was in work early when DS started being unwell in the middle of the night so I was up with him. It was scary but I did it. Then when it was my turn I felt I coped well at the time but the anxiety is worse now.

The really frustrating thing is that I know I can deal with it when I have to. I was sick and yes it wasn’t nice but I got through it just fine. But why isn’t that good enough for my brain to stop😫

Most of the time I am ok, but I have flare ups sometimes like now but I don’t think I’ve had one like this before. It’s always worse at night. Given myself belly ache from worrying and I keep trembling. I haven’t eaten properly for days and I’m struggling to fall asleep/stay asleep.

I know it’s silly and I’ve heard it all about how there’s nothing to worry about, nobody likes being sick etc but unfortunately there’s a part of me that can’t accept that. I feel like I can cope with myself and DC being unwell (just about) it’s the anxiety that’s killing me

Does anybody else have this phobia? I don’t know what else to do

OP posts:
bergamotorange · 18/09/2024 20:11

Firstly Flowers

You have a phobia. It doesn't make you a bad person, it just means you have a phobia. Phobias can be challenged but they are difficult to challenge in the midst of a bad patch.

It isn't silly. It is a phobia.

Try to give yourself a break. Tell yourself you have cared for your family really well despite having a phobia, and so you deserve to rest for a bit to let the worry pass. The anxiety will recede in time. There are many grounding techniques you can practice, such as box breathing. Watch something you really like and just let the anxiety gradually reduce in its own time.

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