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Going abroad - anxiety

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Longsuffering123 · 17/09/2024 22:06

So we're going abroad in October half term and it's our first real and much deserved family holiday. We've done staycations most years and I'm usually okay with those. I have OCD and I can't stop thinking about certain aspects of the holiday. The airline toilets will try and be avoided if I can help it. As for the resort, it's a big hotel and reviews are good stating its immaculate and rooms are cleaned daily. But meal times are like a stampede, many people don't understand the meaning or a queue and barge right in as if you're invisible. They touch the food (buffet) and according to the hotel FB group, there have been many instances of violent v&d in recent weeks. Whether that's linked to the food or hot weather/lack of hydration I'm not sure but it's giving me anxiety. I will be taking lots of hand sanitizer and antibacterial wipes as DS is autistic and also OCD and I can't risk him getting sick. We will also try and avoid any ice and stick to bottled water. I should add I haven't spoken of my thoughts and fears infront of DS at all and only shared in his excitement about the holiday.

I admit I usually take my own pillows on staycations but I really won't have space for them in the suitcase and DH thinks I'm mad for even contemplating it. But the thought of using a pillows hundreds of other people have used is playing on my mind constantly!
Any tips or advice from frequent travellers with similar issues of OCD?

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Beebumble2 · 17/09/2024 22:38

I’m assuming your All inclusive, otherwise I’d eat out in the evening.
if your worried about the pillows, why not pack your own pillow protector to put on.
Sticking to bottle water and not having ice is normal practice. Try to relax and enjoy your holiday.

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