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To feel uncomfortable now I’ve accepted a new role

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Comerainorshine15 · 12/09/2024 15:58

I’ve been offered a new job which would be a step up and told work and given notice. My manager has clearly taken it badly as I hold a high workload and complex projects, and unfortunately we are short staffed as it is. It’s getting to the point where it’s making me feel so guilty and uncomfortable I’m not sure what to do or say anymore.

I never leave a role without ensuring it’s in a good place etc and that’s what I plan to do here as I don’t want to burn bridges, I like my job but there’s no room for progression, they can’t give me that here and I want that for my career development.

I’ve made a joke about it with my manager but I just feel crap. Is there anything I can do so the next month doesn’t just feel awkward because I’m leaving? If I’m honest I didn’t realise I was “valued” this much. I’m feeling nervous as it is stepping up in a new role without the guilt of letting people down.

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SweetSakura · 12/09/2024 16:05

If they valued you that much they should have paid you more.

It's not your problem.

Earlier this year I went through something similar where it was somehow all being loaded onto my shoulders to fix the massive hole they would feel when I left. I had, by chance, a doctor's appointment and when I told them about the pressure (and how it was exacerbating my chronic condition) they signed me off sick till I started my new job.

Grow some slopey shoulders and make sure they start to figure out how to cope without you

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