I feel like I'm falling apart from thoughts going around my head. For example, for ds 18th birthday we paid for 12 driving lessons, bought him a poster and toiletries. At the time, I kept asking what he wanted and he didn't give me any Ideas. Now he's complaining of what rubbish presents he got. I feel terrible. Should I feel terrible? I'm so confused. Part of me feels like he's being ungrateful because he didn't tell us what he wanted but then I think oh no he's going to look back on how bad we were. This is just an idea of how my brain works and it's hurting....