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Ex was a sex/porn addict

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Happysoul65 · 04/09/2024 15:01

My ex husband was the only man I've slept with. We met when I was 16 married at 21 divorced at 49. He made my life a misery over sex and pornography but I was naive and it isn't until after we divorced and I had counselling that I realised husband behaviour wasn't normal. Yes he had affairs....I only knew about one whilst we were married, it wasn't until after our divorce that I could piece times and people together. It's been 10 years since we parted. He works in a secondary school and it often crosses my mind that the young teenager girls he's around every day would certainly be a turn on for him....it worries me. I know for a fact that he's had a few flings with staff at the school. Should I report my concerns to someone or just let it go?

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BrigadierEtienneGerard · 04/09/2024 16:19

Report what? And to whom?

Your ex-H was unfaithful and liked to look at porn (whether he was an addict or not is your word against his).

I understand your concerns, but I seriously doubt if there is anything you can do that won't leave you looking like an embittered ex-W out to cause trouble.

Sorry to be so blunt about it.

xxxndbm · 04/09/2024 16:22

How do you know his addiction to sex / porn would cross over into pedophile?

DeCaray · 04/09/2024 16:23

Why be malicious?

You've leapt from watching porn and having affairs with adult women to molesting children in one jump!

Don't be so ridiculous!

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