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Cosmetic dentist options

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CoffeeLover90 · 03/09/2024 19:00

Hoping for opinions from others who have had cosmetic dentistry or who work in the industry.
Very sensitive subject, I hate my teeth. I find it hard to look in the mirror while brushing, I haven't smiled for photos since I was a child, I cover my mouth when I laugh and a few years ago I went through a period of not brushing them, hoping they would fall out. I realise that was stupid.
I have one tooth at the front which protrudes forward and is slightly higher up the gum than the others. I had two top teeth removed, either side just within smile line. The gaps are obvious when I smile, the teeth either side of these have standard fillings so the gaps expose the black colour of these.
I now visit the dentist every 6 months, after years of fearing them. I mentioned at my last visit that I dreamed of straight teeth and she'd said this would need to be done cosmetically.
I have contacted the surgery and waiting for a call back to book a consultation.
Why I'm asking for advice, I don't want to go in blind and be talked into a more expensive or drawn out procedure that's going to cost more.
I've looked into composite bonding, it's not clear if this will work for a wonky tooth. Also implants. But would they remove a healthy tooth to replace with an implant?
This has effected me mentally for over 20 years. Pushed to the edge last month when I attended a wedding, I didn't realise the photographer was taking candid photos. I tried my best to hide after but I'm worried sick he caught me with my teeth on show. It's affecting the symmetry of my face, one eye is much lower than the other.
It's also difficult to clean around the wonky tooth as it overlaps the one beside it, can't even fit floss around the area.
Typing with tears in my eyes, please don't think I'm being vain. The rest of me is nothing to write home about. I just want to smile and laugh.

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CoffeeLover90 · 03/09/2024 19:01

I didn't mean that to be such an essay, thank you to anyone who can get through it!

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Firenzeflower · 03/09/2024 19:08

Go and see a few dentists and get a plan and pricing. A good dentist will listen to you and come up with various solutions. I’ve just had a lot of cosmetic dentistry and my dentist was brilliant. He came up with a few ideas and I went for the one I was happiest with. He didn’t try to sell me anything he just made a sensible plan which solved my issues. I know the stress related to dental phobia and having teeth you’re embarrassed about. I just wish I had done it years ago.

Timeandtune · 03/09/2024 19:13

I think the main thing is to have complete
faith and trust in your dentist. A good one will listen to what you want to achieve and present you with options.
They shouldn’t be upselling you as this would be against their professional ethics.

I think you are absolutely marvellous for acting on this and I am sure you won’t regret it .

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CoffeeLover90 · 03/09/2024 21:00

Thank you. I've never been in a position to pay for it before now, I'm aware the majority offer payment plans.
It's still a lot of money but I can't go on like this.

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