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Child in car seat

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HJ1989 · 30/08/2024 20:55

heard of a case of a mum leaving her 3 year old in the car seat, whilst only wanting to go to the shops for 1 or 2 things. Due to ques, the timing was a bit longer and customers started to notice and complain. The windows were open, the Daughter had a cold drink and was not left in direct sunlight and it was not the hottest part of The day. The mum was nearly 30 weeks pregnant, who struggled to get her daughter out of the car seat with the weight and into a trolley and also had minor cerebral palsy who struggled with acute motor functions fastening and undoing the straps. Her husband works 12 hour shifts, her father and sister in law were both on holiday out of the country at the time, her family lives 50 miles away, so not close enough to help out and no one else to look after her, for her to do her food shopping alone.

Don’t know what happened afterwards, but out of interest, just wondered if this would go any further with social workers, or police under the mitigating circumstances, would they be lenient if this was her first time, and with the pregnancy and cerebral palsy?
Anyone else heard of anything like this happening?

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moppety · 30/08/2024 21:01

I doubt anything severe will happen, probably just a chat, but it's not great, is it? It must have been some time if other people noticed and cared, so I wonder how long it actually was as I doubt it was just a few minutes. Where was she when people were noticing and complaining? Surely she heard them? Did someone call the police? It seems unlikely to me that anyone would call police over a kid in a car outside a shop for a handful of minutes so I suspect the child was left for quite some time.

She can do online grocery shopping and then doesn't have to worry about it at all, it's a pretty easily solution to someone struggling with mobility.

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HJ1989 · 30/08/2024 21:11

I think she said she tried to get some things online, but they were not available or not in stock at the time and needed them for over the next few days. 🤷‍♀️

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jannier · 30/08/2024 21:29

But she got the child from home to car seat ....no excuse you can get basics and something to eat on line it may not be your brand or preference but you get on with it. Many had no choice well after lockdown down ended due to vulnerability they managed she could for two weeks.

MargaretThursday · 30/08/2024 21:39

I'm assuming this is you/someone very close to you rather than "someone I know" because you are far too involved for just interested about it.

Well unfortunately you have to cut your cloth according to what you can do. If they were absolute urgency those two things then you have to either bribe your 3yo to get in and out of the car seat and at 3yo they can walk rather than being in the trolley.
Or stand outside the shop and ask someone if they can go in and get something for you. I did that on occasion when I was pregnant and vomiting every time any food smells hit me.
Or if you needed them over the next few days why didn't you ask your partner if they could pop in on the way to/from his commute.

If ss/police did get involved it would be out of concern that none of the things you have listed are going to be different next week, so looking to give you support and work out how you can get what you need without leaving your dc in danger.

Probably your best bet is to say "I made a mistake. I was wrong. I won't do it again." And don't do it again, for any excuse at all.

waterfalls123 · 30/08/2024 21:40

The child is three! Wholly inappropriate. If it was a one off and no other concerns of parenting I would imagine words of advice.
But I would also question whether there was any learning difficulty or impairment that impacted decision making - which would make me worry about other decisions on safety the parents was making...

Theleaveswillbefalling · 30/08/2024 21:44

Heard of a case or you are the case?
What was the temperature?
Tried to get a few things online or just needed 1 or 2 items? This story is full of holes. The person needs to stop down playing it and accept responsibility.

jannier · 31/08/2024 16:19

Child left in car window open....bye bye car/child

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