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Feel like my friend is out to get me ....am I paranoid?

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isntitsweetiguesssoo · 29/08/2024 12:39

I've name changed because I'm a little embarrassed but here goes.
I'm 35 and have always had relationships with men.
On a night out I met a woman who is good friends with my friend.
She's gay and had many relationships with women.
Anyway my friend said stay away she loves the women.

I ended up exchanging numbers with this woman and we got on well.
We went on a couple of dates and since then my friend seems to be on some weird vendetta against me.
She told this lady I'm "crazy and unstable (I'm not ) I'm clingy and can't do nothing alone (I go on weekends away alone and love my own company )
This lady's ex apparently was everything my friend is describing me as so not sure if this is why she's doing it.

It's putting this lady in an uncomfortable situation.
Anyway we are all (7 of us ) going away for a weekend away next week to the lakes.
My friend has invited another woman who this lady has previously slept with and has told me she will be sharing a room with this lady.

I just feel really sad about it all
I feel like it's going to push this lady away as it's too much.

If you were this lady would you believe her and run away ?

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isntitsweetiguesssoo · 07/09/2024 09:42

@Fernie99 well I have experienced her do similar to other "friends " over the years
I think I told myself they weren't as close so would never do it to me
She slept with her friends partner so no loyalty's at all
Think I have been a bit blind
The last few years I had noticed her slagging my outfits off or my hair colour
Just little things but seem like they have all came to boiling point and this was final nail in coffin

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