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What can we do?? Horrified by what is happening to women in Afghanistan and want to do something

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worried3456 · 28/08/2024 22:24

Can't believe how bad it's got and how little the world seems to care.

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/article/2024/aug/26/taliban-bar-on-afghan-women-speaking-in-public-un-afghanistan

Women are now banned from speaking in public as well as doing anything else you could imagine that makes up a life - such as going outside or having a job or getting an education. Suicides are skyrocketing of course. How can we tolerate this? We don't have have a route for women from Afghanistan to apply for asylum here.

Does anyone have any tips of what we can do as ordinary people in the UK? which orgs are best to donate to?

‘Frightening’ Taliban law bans women from speaking in public

New vice and virtue restrictions offer ‘a distressing vision of Afghanistan’s future’, says UN

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/article/2024/aug/26/taliban-bar-on-afghan-women-speaking-in-public-un-afghanistan

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samarrange · 28/08/2024 23:40

For once, Iran is not the problem here. The Taliban are Sunni and Iran is Shia. Theologically they hate each other (although they agree that men are great and women should STFU). They occasionally have gun battles along their mutual border.

There was a time when the Taliban had close relationships with certain Gulf states, but that's lessened recently. Plus we have to be nice to the Gulf states because of oil and arms sales and we like going to Dubai for holidays (and containment of Iran).

All Western governments have condemned the Taliban as far as is possible, but they only understand force. We tried that, to the tune of a trillion dollars and over three thousand coalition deaths, and it didn't work.

As the saying goes, think global, act local. If you can't help Afghan women (some good charities have been mentioned), see if you can help other women who are victims of religious misogyny nearer to home. It all adds up.

Autumnalove · 28/08/2024 23:43

TheLocust · 28/08/2024 23:38

Thanks for the list @cupcaske123, will make a donation.

I certainly won't be donating anything to Amnesty, since they seem to think these poor women could simply identify out of this situation. Fuckers.

@TheLocust
I didn't realise about Amnestys stance until I read this tweet, wtf?
https://x.com/lnmackenzie1/status/1828449361493156086

x.com

https://x.com/lnmackenzie1/status/1828449361493156086

TheLocust · 28/08/2024 23:49

@Autumnalove it's an outrageous betrayal isn't it? I won't forget that in a hurry, despite them amending their webpage (now that they've been called out for it).

Razilla · 28/08/2024 23:50

AlcoholicDad82 · 28/08/2024 23:07

Support Israel?! Really

Yes.....it's literally the only country in the ME that has proper rights for women. They're not perfect and have made mistakes in the war but they are trying to do the right thing, they want peace ( as do most Gazans I think) but there are a lot of the Gazan population who have been radicalised and support Hamas... So the solution is tricky and will take a lot of input from other countries.

cupcaske123 · 28/08/2024 23:55

Razilla · 28/08/2024 23:50

Yes.....it's literally the only country in the ME that has proper rights for women. They're not perfect and have made mistakes in the war but they are trying to do the right thing, they want peace ( as do most Gazans I think) but there are a lot of the Gazan population who have been radicalised and support Hamas... So the solution is tricky and will take a lot of input from other countries.

How are Israel helping the thousands of dead and raped women and girls?

Autumnalove · 28/08/2024 23:56

TheLocust · 28/08/2024 23:49

@Autumnalove it's an outrageous betrayal isn't it? I won't forget that in a hurry, despite them amending their webpage (now that they've been called out for it).

The comments underneath that tweet are excellent.
I had no idea, what absolute assholes... How self serving to say "identity as women" as it they would ever have a choice to identify any other way..
I'll be sharing that tweet everywhere!

TheLocust · 29/08/2024 00:06

@Autumnalove I know, and as if anyone would choose to identify as a woman under that regime.

Razilla · 29/08/2024 00:07

cupcaske123 · 28/08/2024 23:55

How are Israel helping the thousands of dead and raped women and girls?

?? They are supporting the surviving hostages they have got back. The IDF is not raping women and girls. Rape, violent gang rape, is what happened to the poor teenagers and young people at the Nova festival.

Autumnalove · 29/08/2024 00:08

TheLocust · 29/08/2024 00:06

@Autumnalove I know, and as if anyone would choose to identify as a woman under that regime.

Would it have been too difficult for Amnesty to just use the simple word female?

Nomorewindchimes · 29/08/2024 00:09

TheLocust · 28/08/2024 23:38

Thanks for the list @cupcaske123, will make a donation.

I certainly won't be donating anything to Amnesty, since they seem to think these poor women could simply identify out of this situation. Fuckers.

UN Women think that men can be women too.

Autumnalove · 29/08/2024 00:11

Nomorewindchimes · 29/08/2024 00:09

UN Women think that men can be women too.

Yep but they are really scraping the barrel when they try to apply their gender shite to Afghanistan of all places!

cupcaske123 · 29/08/2024 00:24

Razilla · 29/08/2024 00:07

?? They are supporting the surviving hostages they have got back. The IDF is not raping women and girls. Rape, violent gang rape, is what happened to the poor teenagers and young people at the Nova festival.

Sorry you obviously haven't heard. 40,000 people including women and children are dead. There is 'credible evidence ' Palestinian women are being tortured and raped in detention in Israel.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/22/claims-of-israeli-sexual-assault-of-palestinian-women-are-credible-un-panel-sa

Claims of Israeli sexual assault of Palestinian women are credible, UN panel says

Experts report evidence of rape, sexual humiliation and threats of rape against girls and women

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/22/claims-of-israeli-sexual-assault-of-palestinian-women-are-credible-un-panel-says

Razilla · 29/08/2024 00:37

cupcaske123 · 29/08/2024 00:24

Sorry you obviously haven't heard. 40,000 people including women and children are dead. There is 'credible evidence ' Palestinian women are being tortured and raped in detention in Israel.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/22/claims-of-israeli-sexual-assault-of-palestinian-women-are-credible-un-panel-sa

People have died in a war started by Hamas. Israel, whilst not perfect, has warned civilians of their targets in advance ( at their detriment). Any complaints of sexual assault are being investigated by the IDF and they will be punished. Because that is obviously not acceptable. And that is the difference. Morals in the govt and most normal people. Hamas has no morals. Hezbollah have no morals...they are terrorist organisations and they hate Christians just as much as Jews.

BigDecisionWorthIt · 29/08/2024 00:39

Without being overly cynical, there isn't a way to solve this without having a Putin-esque leader waltz in there and try intrument regime change.
It won't work, as we've seen by history already, but the interim period would allow a period of time where the intervening nation could assist on getting women to a safer place.

Both Biden and Starmer are weak. Ironically the main Western figure with the guts and "act now, think later" kind of mindset to try bring change is Trump.

Extra irony is thought that the public consensus opposed Western intervention in Afghanistan during the most recent issues.

TheLocust · 29/08/2024 00:43

Ironically the main Western figure with the guts and "act now, think later" kind of mindset to try bring change is Trump.

Unfortunately he gives zero shits about women so we can't bank on him doing anything.

cupcaske123 · 29/08/2024 00:44

Razilla · 29/08/2024 00:37

People have died in a war started by Hamas. Israel, whilst not perfect, has warned civilians of their targets in advance ( at their detriment). Any complaints of sexual assault are being investigated by the IDF and they will be punished. Because that is obviously not acceptable. And that is the difference. Morals in the govt and most normal people. Hamas has no morals. Hezbollah have no morals...they are terrorist organisations and they hate Christians just as much as Jews.

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Israel is currently being investigated for genocide. You're obviously aware that Gaza has been under occupation for decades and the war wasn't started in a vacuum. You're also probably aware that the rape of a detainee by the IDF was caught on film and members of the Israeli government said it was justified.

People who abide by the Geneva Convention could be said to have morals, not those currently committing war crimes. Israel has been killing people including thousands of children, indiscriminately. Bombing schools and hospitals and essential infrastructure. They have also been using Palestinians as human shields and killing people around aid trucks.

BooToYouHalloween · 29/08/2024 00:47

March.

BooToYouHalloween · 29/08/2024 00:48

cupcaske123 · 29/08/2024 00:44

Israel is currently being investigated for genocide. You're obviously aware that Gaza has been under occupation for decades and the war wasn't started in a vacuum. You're also probably aware that the rape of a detainee by the IDF was caught on film and members of the Israeli government said it was justified.

People who abide by the Geneva Convention could be said to have morals, not those currently committing war crimes. Israel has been killing people including thousands of children, indiscriminately. Bombing schools and hospitals and essential infrastructure. They have also been using Palestinians as human shields and killing people around aid trucks.

Parroting nonsense you know nothing about. Your ignorance is honestly laughable. Never heard of a genocide where the population is increasing exponentially according to its own census.

cupcaske123 · 29/08/2024 00:50

BooToYouHalloween · 29/08/2024 00:48

Parroting nonsense you know nothing about. Your ignorance is honestly laughable. Never heard of a genocide where the population is increasing exponentially according to its own census.

Great counter argument.

BigDecisionWorthIt · 29/08/2024 00:50

TheLocust · 29/08/2024 00:43

Ironically the main Western figure with the guts and "act now, think later" kind of mindset to try bring change is Trump.

Unfortunately he gives zero shits about women so we can't bank on him doing anything.

True, but he's one to react strongly to the feeling and notion that someone he has dealt with is disrespecting him and going back on agreements etc.

During the early stages of the peace talks, the Taliban didn't keep up to their end of it, so to prove a point Trump authorised use of the MOAB on a Taliban-aligned infrastructure to get his point across.

Mmhmmn · 29/08/2024 00:52

Just absolutely grotesque. Write to MPs?

Razilla · 29/08/2024 00:53

cupcaske123 · 29/08/2024 00:44

Israel is currently being investigated for genocide. You're obviously aware that Gaza has been under occupation for decades and the war wasn't started in a vacuum. You're also probably aware that the rape of a detainee by the IDF was caught on film and members of the Israeli government said it was justified.

People who abide by the Geneva Convention could be said to have morals, not those currently committing war crimes. Israel has been killing people including thousands of children, indiscriminately. Bombing schools and hospitals and essential infrastructure. They have also been using Palestinians as human shields and killing people around aid trucks.

?? All this is nonsense and demonstratively not true!

TheLocust · 29/08/2024 00:56

Please don't derail this thread into yet another row about Israel & Palestine. It's supposed to be highlighting what's happening in Afghanistan.

SunnyWavess · 29/08/2024 00:58

It’s so sad. I was watching something at the weekend about an Afghan female journalist who managed to get to the UK whilst her family were left there. Her sisters not being able to do anything, such as go to school. It was so sad to think that millions of women are suffering once again at the hands of men. It’s abhorrent. Women are treated like animals in that medieval place.

I don’t know what the answer is to help them, as it’s so ingrained and deep rooted in medieval ideology. How do you even begin to unpick it? As soon as the west left after years there, they crept back out of the woodwork and started dictating again. It’s passed down from generation to generation and sadly I can’t see it getting better any time soon. Those poor women and girls, it’s beyond heartbreaking.

SphinxOfBlackQuartz · 29/08/2024 00:58

TheLocust · 29/08/2024 00:56

Please don't derail this thread into yet another row about Israel & Palestine. It's supposed to be highlighting what's happening in Afghanistan.

I was thinking the same thing!

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