And I know if I was posting that he was keeping me seperate from his friends you'd be telling me that's a red flag, but is it?
I'm middle aged, no intention at all of "settling down" again, but enjoying a casual realtionship for a few months. We see each other once or twice a week, an occasional weekend away, but both have busy lives with hobbies and friends. This is all I can fit him in TBH, although obviously, if I really wanted to I could either see less of friends or include him in some of the things with friends.
I don't want to though. I do like him, but I'm happy with things as they are. I think bringing him into my groups would change the dynamic and then there's always the risk that if we split, he stays and I go!
Does it make me terrible and our realtionship doomed? We've both said we're not looking for someone to marry/live with, been there, done that, no plans to do it again.