One night stand and feelings

[Meltedcheeses]

Went back to a guy's house on Friday.

A lot of chat from him about the future.

Texted a bit since but today is clear he's not interested in seeing me again.

He's done nothing wrong. We are both locals at the same pub. One of those things. I was insanely drunk.

Just the classic embarrassment now. And a kind of disappointment he really gave the impression he'd liked me a while and was talking about cooking for me etc

And it was the usual.

I'm so dumb.

I'm happy for you OP. I'd definitely be getting a free home cooked meal out of him soon, a man that offers that is a keeper

He did mention this....

Thanks OP. So he was responsive when you messaged, that’s good!

Because I am long in the tooth and cynical, and because you sound lovely, open and trusting, I’d still recommend keeping an open wary eye on his behaviours. Especially if you’ve generally had a certain type previously. No judgment btw.

Have fun and be yourself but see how he initiates comms too.That is important. You had an initial impression / feeling and maybe that shouldn’t be completely discounted either :)