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What counts as having visited a country?

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MrsTerryPratchett · 26/08/2024 18:41

Normally I'm one for homestays and 'travelling' not being a tourist Grin But I've visited a lot of countries and the subject came up today about what counts. I've been to a lot of countries but I can count them differently.

Various answers have been:

Leaving the airport (so transfers don't count)
Getting a passport stamp (now we aren't EU, that's more likely)
Eating in the country
Staying overnight
If a country is disputed, who do you listen to? (I've been to a few countries which have disputed borders.) I'm a fan of listening to the person I think is OK.
Countries within countries? Guadeloupe is part of France. But Puerto Rico? Greenland? All the UK countries? Do they 'count'?

Lighthearted (says she, hopefully).

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karmakameleon · 26/08/2024 20:58

This is something that DH had an ongoing competition around and had developed detailed rules until he took a job travelling round Asia and there was no chance of me ever catching up.

For our rules, you had to leave the airport but no specified amount of time in the country and definitely no overnight stay needed.

And for what counts as a country, we used the UN list of member states. This had the advantage of not having any grey areas (had to be a member country at time of travel so didn’t count if gained independence later although that rule was never tested) but the downside was lots of countries don’t have their own representation at the UN (eg England, Scotland and Wales don’t count as separate countries under our rules).

Glitterglitch · 26/08/2024 21:04

I don’t think you have to stay overnight but you do have to have seen some of the country. So I wouldn’t class getting off a cruise ship & having lunch at the harbour and then going back but I would class arriving in Paris in the morning, taking in the sights & then getting a late night train back.

Glitterglitch · 26/08/2024 21:06

I would not include airport stopovers, travelling through a country etc

Glitterglitch · 26/08/2024 21:09

I had to wait a few hours in Tahiti & travelled to a ferry, I don’t consider myself to have visited Tahiti

LittleGreenDuck · 26/08/2024 21:10

I don't count Dubai or Taipei, both of which I've transited through.

I do count Switzerland, despite flying into Geneva and driving straight over the border to France.

ComtesseDeSpair · 26/08/2024 21:13

Leaving the airport. I’ve had dozens of day trips to Paris and Brussels by Eurostar and I think most people would find it weird if I claimed I’ve never visited France or Belgium because I haven’t stayed overnight. If a country believes itself to exist, I count going there as having visited that country. I’d think someone was just trying to be a bit of a smart alec if they told me they’d been to Denmark when they’d actually been to Greenland.

Saying you’ve visited somewhere doesn’t imply that you’re claiming vast knowledge of somewhere or that you’ve explored it thoroughly, you qualify your visit by saying what you did and how long you spent there etc.

sonjadog · 26/08/2024 21:14

I am rethinking the overnight requirement now, and I think instead you have to have engaged with the country in some way, be that just going to a shopping centre and buying some lunch, or visiting a single museum or something like that.

So getting off a plane, spending three days at a conference, never leaving the hotel, and then flying out does not count as visiting the country. But if you took one afternoon off the conference and went into town, saw the cathedral and had a coffee and cake, then you have visited it.

Barleysugar86 · 26/08/2024 21:18

For me the distinction is having had a meaningful interaction with the place. So a six hour layover sightseeing- I'd say I visited. Six hour drive through a country only stopping to get petrol/ service station food I wouldn't.

Hopping across the border for an hour and getting a stamp in my passport, I didn't count.

invisiblecat · 26/08/2024 21:18

MrsMoastyToasty · 26/08/2024 19:41

I think that your feet have to touch the ground. I can't count Belgium as I have only driven through on my way from Holland back to France. Likewise Germany. We were on a coach that started near Innsbruck and going to Salzburg, and the route took us into the very south of Germany and back into Austria. We never left the coach.

I went to the toilet in Belgium once. Does that count?😂

We were on a coach going between France and Germany, and the driver stopped at a large service station in Belgium. We got off the coach, went to the toilet and then got back on again.

Runnerinthenight · 26/08/2024 21:21

I think it counts if you have left the airport.

I spent a month as a student in a French uni and some of us did a day trip to Geneva. So I consider that qualifies me to say I've been in Switzerland.

DD1 took a flight via Hamburg, and she left the airport for a few hours. DD2 had a flight to an Italian city and also left the airport to explore. I think both of these count.

UnpropitiousNightmares · 26/08/2024 21:25

I only consider I've visited a country when I've explored different parts of it so it can take a while before I feel I can say that - until then I only say I have visited a location within a country.

Snowwhitedove · 26/08/2024 21:30

Well if you’ve set foot in a country (airports don’t count) then you’ve clearly been there, though you couldn’t claim to have experienced much of the country.

Pleiades2020 · 26/08/2024 21:30

Putting your feet on the ground of the country even if only transiting at an airport. This way I can count China having been at Guangzhou for a few hours. I ate a pizza and went to the bathroom so it must count surely? 😀

Biggirlnow · 26/08/2024 21:35

I feel differently about it depending on the size of the country. I visited Lanzarote, Madeira and Morocco as part of a cruise. One day each. I consider that I've visited Lanzarote because we saw quite a lot on our tour, it's small and not loads to do there anyway. I don't consider that I've visited Madeira or Morocco because the tour of Madeira was so terrible all we did was drive in a coach to a viewpoint and back. And I only visited a souq in Morocco.

I also don't count Austria, which I've only been to for a few hours as a lunch visit from Germany.

To count, for me, I have to feel like I've experienced something significant for the country.

LividSummers · 26/08/2024 21:36

I spent like eight hours in Doha airport.

Got a bus from one terminal to the next. If I'd carked it I would have died in Qatar. I'm counting airports, possibly only if you get off the plane.

fridaynight1 · 26/08/2024 21:37

I live in Wales but I’ve never been to Scotland. By your reckoning i could say I have been to Scotland because Scotland is part of the UK. Ridiculous - why say I’ve been there if I haven’t.

Apfelkuchen · 26/08/2024 21:39

I don’t count airside at an airport, but would consider a few hours landside transit in a country.

Biggirlnow · 26/08/2024 21:39

Barleysugar86 · 26/08/2024 21:18

For me the distinction is having had a meaningful interaction with the place. So a six hour layover sightseeing- I'd say I visited. Six hour drive through a country only stopping to get petrol/ service station food I wouldn't.

Hopping across the border for an hour and getting a stamp in my passport, I didn't count.

I agree with this

karmakameleon · 26/08/2024 21:42

I don’t get this point about have “experienced” the country. When we lived in HK we had a long weekend in Beijing. Obviously visiting one city in a vast country barely gives you a taste of what it has to offer. On the other hand, we spent a similar amount of time in Singapore and think we pretty much visited every corner. I’d count myself as having visited both, but if I really wanted to get a feel for china id have spend much longer there.

Doggymummar · 26/08/2024 21:45

We went to Guadeloupe, via Paris so we tick both boxes. I went to the Seychelles via Nairobi but I don't consider I have been to Kenya. Likewise Vegas via Detroit don't consider I have been to Detroit.

OneWildNightWithJBJ · 26/08/2024 21:45

I think it’s leaving the airport, so I don’t count Bahrain, Singapore or Hong Kong. Although, if someone asked me if I’d been to those countries, I suppose technically, I’d be lying if I said no.

I think driving or travelling by train through a country counts.

Maybe ‘been to’ and ‘visited’ are slightly different…

MrsTerryPratchett · 27/08/2024 11:29

karmakameleon · 26/08/2024 20:58

This is something that DH had an ongoing competition around and had developed detailed rules until he took a job travelling round Asia and there was no chance of me ever catching up.

For our rules, you had to leave the airport but no specified amount of time in the country and definitely no overnight stay needed.

And for what counts as a country, we used the UN list of member states. This had the advantage of not having any grey areas (had to be a member country at time of travel so didn’t count if gained independence later although that rule was never tested) but the downside was lots of countries don’t have their own representation at the UN (eg England, Scotland and Wales don’t count as separate countries under our rules).

I appreciate detailed rules. Just my kind of nerd!

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Chemenger · 27/08/2024 11:34

Our rule for collecting US states is that you must leave the airport, station or car, and eat a meal for the state to count. You don’t have to sleep there. Countries would be similar. So I’ve been to Connecticut because I ate a hot dog in a gas station but I haven’t been to Delaware because I’ve only driven through it.

SnappingAtHeels · 27/08/2024 13:32

DramaAlpaca · 26/08/2024 20:35

Just so we could say we'd been, DH and I drove over the border between Germany and Austria, parked up and went for a quick walk, then got back in the car and drove back to Germany. We were only in Austria for about half an hour, but I reckon it counts.

Oh that reminds me. Our older DS has autism and for AGES one of his special interests was Katie Morag (I;m also a fan) and he was desperate to go to Scotland. We were in Northumberland visiting a family member who was very frail and on end of life care and it was all very stressful and intense. Poor DS badgered us for a week about going to Scotland. So we drove to the border in exhausted frustration and stepped over it. Took a photo. Then back. Then drove back to the hospice.

I definitely count that. (Next year we plan to go properly though).

SnappingAtHeels · 27/08/2024 13:36

OneWildNightWithJBJ · 26/08/2024 21:45

I think it’s leaving the airport, so I don’t count Bahrain, Singapore or Hong Kong. Although, if someone asked me if I’d been to those countries, I suppose technically, I’d be lying if I said no.

I think driving or travelling by train through a country counts.

Maybe ‘been to’ and ‘visited’ are slightly different…

And another post from me (I'm on a roll). We fly to Australia sometimes for various reasons. Again due to DS1;s range of medical issues I always buy travel insurance to include Singapore because it is the plane refuelling point.

If you buy travel insurance for a country but never leave the airport... I reckon it counts...ish.

I appreciate that I might be overthinking that bit on the travel insurance side of things but I don't particularly want to end up in a Singapore hospital without it being covered as it can be expensive I believe.

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