For clarity, I am a moderately high earner, paying higher rate tax. I do take advantage of legal tax savings by paying into ISAs and a pension, but generally recognise that tax is necessary if we want things to work and am happy to pay my share. I don't, for example, vote according to where I think I'll pay less tax.
Friends of mine have 6 children, all went to the very ordinary local comp, most have decent but ordinary jobs.
One son does "something" in the city. His dad talks about him and his success and wealth all the time. It sometimes makes me cringe for the other DC, but his pride is understandable. He also gives rather too many details of exactly how much the son is worth for my liking, but I was raised never to discuss money.
Anyway, so is due a big bonus (low millions) which will be paid next tax year. Dad was telling me about a clever scheme involving living off shore for 9 months so that he doesn't have to pay any tax on it. Dad is thrilled at the idea. This is a man I used to have a lot of respect for - we have similar career paths ourselves.
I felt really disappointed. I understand it's a lot more money than the few thousands I am "happy" to pay in tax, but he's a young man enjoying immense good fortune (albeit worked for) and he's going to avoid putting anything back.
This is obviously his choice, but I am disappointed that my friend, his dad is so thrilled about it, especially (but maybe not relevant) as they are a family which has been very costly to the taxpayer over the years, lots of children, education, medical care, two of the adult children currently claiming benefits etc. He and his wife are first to complain that DF is having to pay care fees, but where do they think the money should come from? It's changed things and I couldn't speak at the time. I was hardly going to tell him I think his pride and joy is a terrible person, but equally, I couldn't be pleased about it.