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Deal with teenager who stole/sold stuff for vapes and alcohol

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flatrock001 · 17/08/2024 18:08

I’m posting this on behalf of my sister. She has 17yr old son and noticed when going into his room that half of his electronic gadgets were missing. He admitted to pawning them off online and then buying disposable vapes and alcohol. He also admitted to something worse, stealing from one of his close female friends when going abroad this May.

Her son went with a few other lads on a trip to mainland Europe and stayed in a small house paid for by the parents. They met up with another group of girls on the same holiday they knew well from school. Apparently while they group all had some drinks, he stole one of the girls purses, took the money and then threw it away when going out for a walk in the city. She was apparently very distraught as it had about €250 and her passport which caused problems for her coming back.

She’s knows that he needs rehab but also wonders if he needs consequences for stealing his friends wallet. My sister is good friends with the girl’s parents and would be mortified if they ever found out. Any advice?

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rubyslippers · 17/08/2024 18:18

Yes
the son should pay the money back and apologise to the girl directly and deal with any consequences the parents may have
whats a horrible thing to do - he’s not 7 !
is he at college or studying?

Laurmolonlabe · 04/04/2025 00:11

Personally I think he needs big consequences for stealing a purse and ditching a girl's passport- she will have been traumatised by the experience, and could easily have got stranded abroad. Rehab- I think he needs to be locked up for a while, clearly none of this was on the spur of the moment, he meant to pawn his stuff and to steal, I doubt if it is disposable vapes and booze he is addicted to, it sounds like it may be risky behaviour -a serious mental health issue.

Maitri108 · 04/04/2025 00:14

Rehab? Is he an alcoholic?

I'd make him get a job and replace everything he's stolen and he can buy his own tech from now on. I'd stop paying for his phone or give him any money.

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alcoholnightmare · 04/04/2025 00:39

I can confirm having been in several rehabs - they are like a holiday. Don’t bother.

alcoholnightmare · 04/04/2025 00:42

I’ve been in six rehabs in fact

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