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Does your area have a 'Mum uniform'?

67 replies

DitchTheDodo · 16/08/2024 15:24

I was out and about with DD in two different areas today, couldn't help notice how differently the Mums were dressed between the two.

The first area was very 'Oliver Bonas' (bright midi dresses, cross body bags, new balance) while in the second area everyone seemed to be wearing cycling shorts and tight tops! Areas on 30 mins apart. I'm still trying to find my style since losing a bit of weight so I notice these things!

What's it like by you?

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DappledThings · 16/08/2024 22:40

No uniform look at all here that I've noticed.

RVEllacott · 16/08/2024 22:44

Outdoor gear (Lake District - we love a fleece and waterproof)

RIVERDALEHIGH · 16/08/2024 22:46

Midlands here.
It's very much mum jeans and new balance trainers or Birkenstocks, with some kind of slouchy jumper. Usually grey.
Shorts/Leggings & oversized T-shirts
Gym wear

bonzaitree · 16/08/2024 22:46

KreedKafer · 16/08/2024 16:45

Depends on the mums. The area where I live has a mixed demographic of young couples who have recently moved here because it's currently being touted as an up-and-coming trendy area that's still slightly more affordable than similar areas on the other side of the city; a very large Orthodox Jewish community; and families who have probably just grown up here for a couple of generations.

The former are usually in midi dresses with Converse or Doc Marten sandals, dungarees, or boyfriend/mom/looser fit jeans and quirky t-shirts.

The second group dress according to religious/cultural requirements, which means calf-length skirts, flat shoes, tights and long-sleeved tops, almost always in black or navy. They also wear a wig and/or a headscarf to cover their own hair.

The third group tend to wear leggings, joggers or skinny jeans with white trainers, and vest tops layered with a long cardigan or a hoodie.

Prestwich?

OolongTeaDrinker · 16/08/2024 22:48

SW London - Sweaty Betty leggings seem to feature quite heavily at our school gate.

TurkishDartboard · 16/08/2024 22:59

At DS’s school, literally anything from hospital scrubs to corporate gear uniforms to paint-covered dungarees and blue hair to jeans and jumpers to the ‘asymmetric black and interesting jewellery’ look I associate with arts admin. The gym or cycling gear can be deceptive — a lot of medics and architects (overrepresented ant the school, which is city centre and near two hospitals) around here cycle to work and change there.

There don’t appear to be many SAHMs. I know some of the vaguely boho/very informal dressers are yoga teachers and musicians, one runs a youth theatre, and one runs a circus skills school. (One dad occasionally shows up on a unicycle, and there’s another who arrives from a run, clad only in tiny athletics shorts…)

Gowlett · 16/08/2024 23:01

housethatbuiltme, this made me laugh as I’m the older mam slash grandma, most of the mothers at our school are young. Some could even be my daughter… Most if them wear the same thing all year round, and never any socks! (on the dads, either).
I don’t understand the duvet coats… I look like an (old) boiler in a lagging jacket in one. Women in white ones look like snowmen. Tried on a gorgeous teddy coat last winter. Didn’t buy it, because, what happens when it rains? You’d be a big soggy Elmo?

Oceangreyscale · 16/08/2024 23:52

TurkishDartboard · 16/08/2024 22:59

At DS’s school, literally anything from hospital scrubs to corporate gear uniforms to paint-covered dungarees and blue hair to jeans and jumpers to the ‘asymmetric black and interesting jewellery’ look I associate with arts admin. The gym or cycling gear can be deceptive — a lot of medics and architects (overrepresented ant the school, which is city centre and near two hospitals) around here cycle to work and change there.

There don’t appear to be many SAHMs. I know some of the vaguely boho/very informal dressers are yoga teachers and musicians, one runs a youth theatre, and one runs a circus skills school. (One dad occasionally shows up on a unicycle, and there’s another who arrives from a run, clad only in tiny athletics shorts…)

I wish there was a parent on a unicycle! That would make drop off more interesting for sure.

Edingril · 16/08/2024 23:54

Woollypullover · 16/08/2024 15:32

You mean women's fashions? Not all women are mums, or shouldn't simply be defined as such, surely?

Well if they all wear the same or similar things it is noticeable

SurpriseOzzy · 16/08/2024 23:57

Allthingsdecember · 16/08/2024 17:58

I went to a play cafe today and noticed every pair of shoes except one were new balance (including my own).

Out of fashion now!!

Pineapplewaves · 17/08/2024 00:04

Cycling shorts, crocs and hoodies for those that don't exercise and full running gear for those that do (underneath dry robes when it's raining).

GoFigure235 · 17/08/2024 00:06

ThePoshUns · 16/08/2024 16:01

How do you know whether someone is a Mum?

The line of little ducklings waddling after them.

NOTANUM · 17/08/2024 00:07

No cycling shorts here except for those actually exercising! Quite a bit of Lululemon and Sweaty Betty.

WhatdoIdoooooo · 17/08/2024 00:08

Southern Portugal here and it’s a mixed bag.
Obviously hot at the moment, so dresses and flip flops/sandals, denim shorts, flip flops, oversized striped shirts, sunglasses, large beach bags

Cattenberg · 17/08/2024 17:22

SurpriseOzzy · 16/08/2024 23:57

Out of fashion now!!

Trainer fashions are weird. Was everyone supposed to throw out their Adidas Sambas and buy Adidas Gazelles instead, or was it the other way round? The two styles were almost identical anyway.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 17/08/2024 17:28

Sambas are more likely to be good in white, gazelles were the colour pop choice. Sambas were more fashionable for those who like to do the neutral colour palette- then Sunak wore them and suddenly lots of people got the ick so when buying new trainers replaced with gazelles.

trainer fashion though- if you wear them a lot/do a lot of walking (pretty common if you are a mum of a little one), then last 2 years before needing replacing, so fashion makes sense.

Hdifuhjv · 17/08/2024 18:00

Very affluent SELondon - really depends on whether you are a mum in your 30s with a baby or toddler - then leggings plus top or jumper, baggy jeans plus top or jumper. For mums with kids in primary i.e. in their 40s - dresses, lots of dresses esp. in this weather.

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