There has recently been some upset within the family unit . Basically due to a toxic friend . Who has tried to cause lots of problems within our family.
I wrote about it here. May be worth just reading the first op to grt the jist
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5133818-family-unit-fucked-so-worried-about-ds-miss-him?reply=137429982
Anyway DS came to my house 4/5 ago it felt very awkward. He only stayed for a short while. But it was still something which probably took alot of courage. A few days back we went to the beach. He did not want to. I told him that he was missed the vibe was not the same the train journey was boring . I wanted him to feel missed and wanted.
I found out that the toxic friend is away for a few days or so. Ds came over yesterday. The vibe was better. It did not feel so awkward. We managed to touch on a few things about the situation. He was much more approachable and I'm hoping he took some of the things we said on board.
The biggest thing is him and DD are meeting up today. They are hoping to clear the air. We are just hoping because the toxic person is not about that she can't influence DS. But after we don't know what will happen . Just have to keep fingers crossed that it has a positive outcome. Dd also can't tell ds the absolute full story as professionals have advised she does not tell him to much. Because of the toxic person he's engaging with. I'm just praying it does not make anything worse.
I also found out via DS that dd ex thinks that DD set him up. So that he gos back to prison. Which is not true . Its actually the toxic person that set everything up. But im praying to God this does not put DD in danger.
Anyway I'm keeping fingers crossed it gos OK with DD and DS