DD has been friends with the same group since reception, now going into year 9.
one girl has always had anger issues - to the point has scratched, pulled hair and pushed others as recently as year 7. She has also started verbally bullying two of them this year (calling fat etc)
have advised my DD to limit contact and I have done the same with the mum. The mum and dad cannot deal with her, her younger brother is also a little shit who also has anger issues. The mum bitches about friends (adults and children) and also argues a lot with her Dd, they both scream and Dd says thinks like I wish you were dead. As parent and girls know each other well, have always tried to address and not involve school but due to level of bullying, school became involved as reported her behaviour to teachers. The bully’s mum went nuclear on school, saying her Dd had behaviour issues due to being highly intelligent and has asked for support and said she was the one being bullied. Culminated in her Dd being awarded a kindness award for the year, which really upset the other girls as ignored the bullying.
we are still fb friends (mother and I) and she has put up a post to say what a lovely person she Has turned out to be and how proud she is.
how do I help my Dd cut ties with her, she is nervous that as part of a bigger group, she will be alone.
i don’t want to address with the mum as she has told me in the past she know her Dd is in the wrong and needs help for anger issues but now she appears to have gone 180 saying she is amazing.