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Summer holidays in your youth

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Bobje · 02/08/2024 20:23

How did you spend your summer holidays as a kid?

I grew up in the 80s so have rose tinted memories of endless summer days spent with friends out on our bikes, wading in streams looking out for sticklebacks and sneaking into the school fields to play rounders.
We also chalked hopscotch grids on the pavements, built dens with dining chairs and the clothes airer draped over with my mum's candlewick throw 😂

The good old days!
Do you have similarly fond memories?

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Comedycook · 02/08/2024 20:27

Grew up in the 80s/90s. We never played out....it wasn't a thing where we lived in London. I remember watching a lot of TV with my sister! We'd also be put in lots of various holiday clubs...tennis, drama, art etc. I remember my mum would make me polish the lounge table and sideboard every day and hoover the lounge! I remember doing this quite happily and enjoying my chores.

troppibambini6 · 02/08/2024 20:28

Italy. For the whole six weeks. We stayed with my grandparents and saw all our family.
Sounds amazing but I really used to miss my friends especially when I was a teen I felt like I missed out on all the fun.

OlympicsFanGirl · 02/08/2024 20:32

80s and early 90s

Basically went out to play for 4 weeks and then 2 weeks in a caravan somewhere in the UK.

My own children do the same. Out to play for 4 weeks but our holidays are AI overseas.

Tisfortired · 02/08/2024 20:35

Grew up in 90s/00s and like you just remember being outside from sunrise til sunset. My mums rule was to be home when the street lamps start coming on! We might have had the occasional day out but mostly it was just playing out with friends. My grandparents had a caravan in Rhyl we’d spend a week or so there usually.

Katherineryan1986 · 02/08/2024 20:35

I grew up in the 1970’s/80’s.

We used to go off on our bikes, to the local park, to the swimming pool.

Or to friends houses where we played in their garden or played board games.

When I was a bit older I used to go to the local riding school and help out with the ponies, grooming and helping smaller children with their lessons.

I was in the school orchestra and so spent one week at a music school.

One year my sister went on a christian holiday and I went with her. It was ok but not really my ‘thing’.

As a teenager I continued to go to the riding school but also went clothes shopping with girlfriends in our local town, Chelsea Girl, C&A, Richard Shops, etc.

I also had chores to do at home, and would have to take turns with my sisters, we had to vacuum and dust the sitting room, hall and stairs (this wasn’t just in the holidays though).

Taytocrisps · 02/08/2024 21:42

Child/teen of the '80s. I grew up in a working class area where the vast majority of women were SAHMs. There was no contraception back then in Ireland, so big families were the norm.

When I was small, I played out a lot with a big group of kids. We'd play skipping, chasing, hide and seek, tennis (especially during Wimbledon), cycle our bikes, skate around on our roller skates etc. Sometimes we'd throw balls against a wall and chant rhymes. We'd head out straight after breakfast and stay out all day, just coming home for food. If the weather was good, we'd head off to the swimming pool (by ourselves - no adults accompanied us). There was little or no supervision of us by adults. The older kids kept an eye on the younger ones and in turn the younger kids accepted the authority of the older kids. At various stages, there would be a competition of some kind - I seem to remember the older boys organising snooker, darts, Subbuteo leagues etc. Sometimes someone would get a really exciting toy like a kite or something and we'd all be dying for a go.

For some reason, I stopped hanging around with those kids when I got to around 9 or 10. The group dynamics changed. I think the older kids entered their teens and were too big for childish games and stopped hanging out. The group got a lot smaller. And I wasn't too crazy about the two girls who were closest to me in age - one of them was very mean and spiteful.

I made a new friend when I got to around 10 or 11. She had a lot of younger brothers and sisters. They weren't allowed to play out on the street, so we hung around her back garden a lot and played games with her younger siblings. She's still my best friend all these years later. Once or twice we camped out in her back garden with half the kids from her street. I remember her Mam cooking us all sausages for breakfast the next morning.

I was in the girl guides for a few years. They'd usually take a break for the summer, but they'd organize a few day trips here and there. And maybe a summer camp.

I also joined a summer project. They'd organize a programme of low cost activities and then you could put your name down for whatever took your fancy. It's all a bit vague now but I seem to remember doing basket weaving and taking lessons in the local swimming pool and day trips to Butlins or the beach or hikes in the mountains.

There were always fads - at different stages there were hoola hoops, the Rubik's cube, yoyos with Coke or Fanta on them. We'd pester our parents for the latest craze.

Moved on to secondary school and made a new group of friends. I was particularly close to one of them and she lived fairly near. We'd go to the local shopping centre and spend hours wandering around the shops - admiring clothes we couldn't afford to buy and flipping through records and posters. If we had money, we'd go to the local kebab place and order kebabs, chips and cokes. They played music videos so we felt very hip. A lot of the time we just walked around the streets, hoping to encounter some good looking blokes. By encounter I just mean walk past them Grin. If they were particularly good looking (rare), we'd sigh and dream of having them for our boyfriends. It was all very innocent. Sometimes we'd go to the cinema.

We read a lot. We'd borrow books from the library. We also read a lot of magazines. Twinkle/Bunty/Mandy as kids (I'd swap with my sisters) and then Jackie/Blue Jeans/Patches/Just Seventeen as teens.

Just realized that I haven't mentioned my family at all. Or holidays. I've a big family and we weren't very well off. So we didn't go on a holiday every year. But some years we rented a caravan or a holiday home by the sea. Caravans were really exciting - beds that you could pull down from the wall! And once or twice we went to Butlins which was just magical. Who needs Disneyland when you have Butlins Grin. It was so exciting having a funfair on our doorstep and knowing that every ride was free! There was also a swimming pool and a roller rink. And ice creams and sweets and occasionally chips and a burger. We took part in some of the competitions - there's a hilarious photo of my brother flexing his muscles (in his underpants) in the Tarzan competition.

My parents brought us on lots of day trips too. Sometimes just to play football in the park, sometimes to the beach or the zoo. We'd always pack a picnic and bring a bottle of club orange.

We had a TV but I don't remember watching TV much during the summer. I guess TV wasn't geared towards kids so much back then. And nobody wanted to stay indoors on those bright sunny days and evenings.

The summer holidays are long in Ireland - two months for primary school and three months for secondary school. I'm sure I was bored a lot of the time, in the days before smart phones and Netflix. But on the whole, I have very happy memories.

LightFull · 02/08/2024 22:03

I grew up in the 70's and 80's

I was a feral child and played outside all summer long

I was very lucky and I could kick myself for not moving to a house with a big open green spaces directly outside for my own DC

LightFull · 02/08/2024 22:05

Our street is quiet though with no traffic so my DC made do and the local parks are round the corner

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showeringthisaft · 02/08/2024 22:15

We had council run playschemes at the community hall on the estate. They'd do activities at the hall and adjacent park, and some days out. Parents could just drop you off and sign you in, it was great!

Littletreefrog · 02/08/2024 22:17

Either playing in the street from dawn to dusk with friends and in and out of each others houses and gardens or forced to go to the Methodist church play scheme depending if Mum was in work or not at the time

YikesOhMy · 02/08/2024 22:32

90s kid with a single mum
Spending long summer days as a young child surrounded by the long skirts of my grandmother and the warm heat of the summer evening watering plants with her before bed.
As a teen making the long walk to and from the library with the maximum number of books each time, multiple times each week. I'd love to reread Judy Blume and pretend I was a cool 80s american teenager

Bobje · 02/08/2024 22:35

@Taytocrisps you've described my childhood perfectly, except mine was based in the Midlands in England and no Butlins, but a couple of weeks with the rellies on the Kent coast!
I've come over all nostalgic reading your post 🥰

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Taytocrisps · 02/08/2024 22:43

@Bobje I didn't intend writing an essay. But I really enjoyed that trip down memory lane. I assumed if I ever had DC that they would have the same carefree summers that I had. But so much changed in just one generation.

DrCoconut · 03/08/2024 00:40

We weren't really allowed to play out as that was what rough kids did apparently. I did have a bike but had to ride it in the yard. I had days out with my grandparents, lots of reading and drawing and just enjoying not having to go to school. I was never bored. Later on my mum worked 2 mornings a week and would leave us in bed. We got up, watched Timmy Mallet or similar and then walked to meet our mum from work. We couldn't afford holidays until I was that bit older but it was very exciting when we went to a caravan for the first time.

DelphiniumBlue · 03/08/2024 00:46

Watching TV all morning in a darkened room with my brother. Reading loads. Going out on our bikes. Holidays with family, Norfolk with one side, Mediterranean with the other. Going to one of 3 local outdoor swimming pools with friends and spending all day there. Helping out in family business. Babysitting for younger cousins. Sunbathing in the garden.

Bobje · 03/08/2024 07:18

"I was never bored"
@DrCoconut This was what made me post. My sister called to say what are our plans next week, her DCs are already complaining about being bored!!

@Taytocrisps it's such a shame those carefree days are gone.
Were we really so innocent (or naive 🤔) then?
I'm sure the same dangers are lurking around the corner then, as now, but as parents who grew up a generation ago, why are we so risk adverse for our own children?

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letmeeatinpeace · 03/08/2024 07:57

Grew up in the 90s/00s, in Portugal where school holis are 12 weeks long.
We spent half of it getting up to unsupervised mischief on my gran's farm - some memories include taking a sheep to be 'baptized' in stream, finding a rats nest full of baby rats and keeping them as 'pets' until by gran found out and lost her shit (understandable). And some dangerous activities like walking behind the cows in the stable - we could have easily been kicked... It was very fun as a little kid but I do wonder if I'd leave my DS fully unsupervised like we were..!

The other half of summer we would fly solo to the US to stay with my other grandparents. A lot of afternoons cycling around the suburbs and wondering where all the kids were (indoors, watching TV). We did make some friends eventually, but it was hard work! When I got older I loved hanging out in the many malls (a novelty as Portugal didn't have any at the time), going to theme parks, and sometimes to summer camp.

Fun times!

Crunchymum · 03/08/2024 09:23

We were often out the house after breakfast until lunchtime and then after lunch until dinnertime (and then allowed out again after dinner when we were a but older / the weather was really good).

We did a lot of simple and wholesome stuff. We lived on an estate so there were loads of kids and there were always massive games of rounders / hide and seek / football etc. There'd be water fights and sprinklers on warmer days. Birthday parties often happened on the main green, all kids invited. We had an adventure playground right by the estate and it was run by the most fantastic staff. We had daytrips and discos as well as access to the playground 5 days a week in the summer holidays (it was open weekends otherwise). They put on lots of activities - art's & crafts, cooking, fashion shows, talent contests. Parents all paid a small weekly sub to the playground and contributed to trips.

Adults would gather on the main green for BBQ's in the summer, everyone bought a dish. There'd be music and it was just such a lovely vibe (no-one ever complained)

We'd have sleep overs, pop in and out of each others houses, share toys etc.

A very happy and decent childhood (barring the odd fight / naughty thing we got up to - like canal swimming or playing on scaffolding!!)

It wasn't a sinkhole estate but it was full of working class / poorer families but people made the best of it. We moved when I was 13 and it was honestly a lovely childhood.

NCfor24 · 03/08/2024 09:30

YikesOhMy · 02/08/2024 22:32

90s kid with a single mum
Spending long summer days as a young child surrounded by the long skirts of my grandmother and the warm heat of the summer evening watering plants with her before bed.
As a teen making the long walk to and from the library with the maximum number of books each time, multiple times each week. I'd love to reread Judy Blume and pretend I was a cool 80s american teenager

I re-read Forever by Judy Blume last year. It reads so differently as an adult! And is very short. But as 13 year olds my friend and I would know the pages of the sex bits and re read and daydream of falling in love!

Totallywoah · 03/08/2024 09:38

Grew up in the 80s early 90s and I remember similar to you.
I lived metres away from Greenwich park and me and my friends would spend all summer there, we had a lot of freedom that's unheard of now with eight year olds.
We'd also go to a caravan park for one week.

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